Nah, don’t let the “ill think about” have you thinking it’s a flat out no!!!
It’s a chance at an oppertunity mate, use it!! You’ve got the usually hard part out the way, ASKING.. and letting her know you’re interested (hopefully you made it clear this is a date lol), now you’re free to be flirtatious and have fun with future moves.
“Still thinking of how you’re gonna bug your favorite person when we go see Thor” ...
Anything like that, that’s slightly corny but you can come up with something, make it as if she has already accepted, have fun with it.
Good luck bro
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Well, with an answer like that you should probably rescind the offer.
Just she actually know you even mean it as a date? The way you describe it still sounds like it could just be two pals hanging out.
Also, movies are a bad first date. You can't talk. Ask her out to dinner, the whole date is just you two talking about flirting and getting to know each other... not staring at a screen for two hours. That's a relationship type of date.
If you want it to be a date make sure you implicitly tell her you want it to be a date. I’ve had guy friends ask me “hey you wanna go see a movie?” and i agreed thinking it was strictly platonic, not realizing they liked me, and then I felt bad for hurting them when I told them I just wanted to be friends because they thought there was something more going on there. Make your interests clear!!! 😊
Too vague when you asked her. Too open a question. She probably isn't interested in you like that. Be upfront or you will get lost in obscurity.
On a related note, if you like her, the movies is way too soon as a first date. Should have started with drinks or something more casual depending on your age.
Hmm does she think it's a date or not? If you didn't tell her as in its a date it would be just like a get together
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Keep it moving. No offense to the girl, or women in general, but rarely do most women go out of their way to tell a guy if she is genuinely interested for several reasons that I won't get into. Long story short, you're likely to waste your time waiting. It's similiar to how most women never know where they want to eat. No shade, but its just their nature. So either run your best game, or move on man.
Girls are scared of confrontation. She couldn't say no to your face so she went with something vague in the hope you'd forget about it and move on. The girls you want to date are the ones that are really excited to see you, the others might go on one date for a free meal or do something if they have nothing else on.
Dating at work is a fail. When it all blows up, and it will, one or both of you will be looking for a new job. There's even a saying for this - "Don't shit where you eat."
"I'll think about it" means she's not that into you. If she was she'd say 'yes'. But she didn't, she keeps you at arms length. And this is why you need other options. So spin plates, lots of them, date around, have lots of women you see. This way you won't be so desperate for ONE.mention you're going anyway and go so you talk about the movie and get a chance to say "next time". make a specific time too, don't seem too open.
Best thing to do is to not care about it. Don't get your hopes up. I'll think about it usually means she is thinking about a good way to reject your proposal. Next time, give a definite date and time. It makes you sound more confident.
Most guys who are saying no is because They're not trying hard enough. Keep insisting with her that you want to go with her. She'll come through or tell you flat out nah.
didn't read past your title.
Pass on that. If she can't give you an excited yes, it's an utter waste of time. Don't play yourself.Never ever ask a girl out. Ignore them. They go nuts for you if you ignore them... They will ask you out.. Do not pay attention to her. Focus on a friend of hers instead... Trust me!
My answer to her would have been. Yes for sure, you go ahead and that about that while I'm thinking about this other girl. And I would mean it too.
She's not that interested man, sorry. Good luck out there.
Yeah that's a no.
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