If a girl says "I'll think about it" after being asked out?

[Anonymous]

im 21 she is 22, we see each other very rarely so we talk on Facebook and whatnot. I have asked her out once a long time ago, yes through Facebook. This first time she said we should get to know each other so OK. Well I asked her again about a year later just a bit ago, yes through Facebook again lol. She said she will think about it, so I see her in a few weeks, should I just ask her in person? is she waiting for me to just ask her in person or it this a total waste of time? Any opinions would be greatly appreciated :) thanks!

[rusiesq]

Definitely ask her in person if you think she might say yes, but asking over Facebook is lame. Call her without the expectation of dating her. I personally would never want a mostly online relationship. Talk on the phone, text, and try to see her more often. Her saying yes is more likely if you make more of an effort to not just Facebook chat.

[Asker]

Yeah I mean we live close, it wouldn't be an online relationship. Its just hard now because I can't get to know her better or her me because we don't see each other that often. So you think I should just ask her out in person next time I see her?

[rusiesq]

If you so badly want to ask her out again, wait until you see her in person. But I think it would be better to hang out with her a few more times before you ask:)

[rusiesq]

I know this is super late, and I'm so sorry haha. I don't think you should ask her out the next time you see her (unless you already have) I think you should wait to hang out with her more~~ that also may be why she keeps saying no.

[Asker]

Ha its not to late lol, last time I saw her we talked/flirted and it went well but it wasn't for too long so I didn't ask her out. I still know for sure I will see her today and once in a week, so I'm just gonna keep talking/flirting more till I feel its the right time, so thanks!

[CestLolaVie]

Ask her but she seems a little uninterested to be honest. If I was interested in a guy I wouldn't need time to think about dating or going out, especially that she seems to have had enough time talking to you already. But you can try, it might work out.

[Takkunlee]

"I'll think about it" seems sort of rude. If I wanted to wait til I meet someone I would just tell them that I wanted to know them in person a bit more but if I say I'll think about it , seems like an awful attempt at a more polite no.

[Eddieguitar]

Whatever you do, don't do the same thing as last time. I used to go "all out" on a girl and trying too hard hurts you. Make her feel like she likes you more than you like her. Don't be clingy

[Hallison]

When I sag it (most of the time) I'm probably gonna say no. But it depends if your getting a good vibe from her. If so, then you have a really good chance if you ask her in person :)

[anony84]

Usually I say I'll think about it if I'm being nice and don't want to reject him right then and there.

[cyrus7]

It means no, move on