Is a girl saying “ I’ll think about it” a nice way of saying no?

[Anonymous]

Would she say that to every guy who asks her out?

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She always seemed nervous at the times when she’s out of office around me but in office she appears confident and professional

[Guy13]

That’s a hard No said softly. No more attention to her. ZERO ‼️

[Asker]

She texted me so if she doesn’t like me then why text

[Guy13]

Because she is a woman and they need attention above all. All she wants is you chasing her. She does not have intentions of dating you. She's not a nice person. A nice person would be straightforward yes or no.

[Anonymous]

Yeaaah that’s a no. At least it would be for me. But if she’s really nice or shy then she didn’t want to be blunt, it feels rude and mean. I know all about it sadly.

[Asker]

Ok then as a girl why does she get nervous around me then? Because she knows I like her?

[Opinion Owner]

I can’t read her mind so take what I say with a grain of salt but when I’m in that situation, the nerves are because you have been showing signs or hinting to liking me and if we are alone I fear you will ask me out lol. It’s nothing mean against you, but it brings on a worry of confrontation because we know we will have to reject. Some men are fine with it and don’t make a fuss but others will have their ego wounded and like lash out or be really mean. Another outcome is they freeze us out altogether then suddenly ignore us and it’s uncomfortable. Unfortunately us women have to worry about things like this.

[Asker]

She doesn’t get nervous in her office , man you make me get discouraged to asking her out

[Asker]

Could it be she said “ I’ll think about it “ because she’s scared to say no? I’m a big guy 6”5 250

[Asker]

Also one day she texted me “ where are you, I’m concerned “ if she doesn’t like me why does she even care

[Asker]

If she’s not attracted to me, which I’m sure she isn’t why would she text me? Is she testing me to see how fast I would respond? 😆 women are cruel especially the beautiful ones

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, not trying to detour you, and like I said before, take my opinion with a grain of salt because it’s not fact. The only fact comes from no one else but her, this is all speculation and I’m basing my perspective on how I have responded when I’ve been in her shoes.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure she cares for you as a friend, which would be why she checks on you — not wanting romance doesn’t mean she has no care at all for your well-being. As for her behavior in and out of office, if you are in a setting where it’s just you and her, or even simply outside of work then there is opportunity for you to ask her out, and if she doesn’t want that then yeah, it’s intimidating. Personally if a guy I like asks me out, I am gonna take the date. I will either say yes, or if it’s a maybe or I’m unavailable for that day or time, I will suggest something else. So for her to say maybe and not follow it up with anything, I know when I have said this it’s because I don’t want to have a date. Not because of your height or size, but maybe I just see you as a friend, I don’t want to date anyone atm, or I am still dealing with someone else. Remember, just because the timing works for you, doesn’t mean it works for the other person.

[Asker]

Okay I’m convinced maybe. Back to moving, I was gonna do that regardless

[Opinion Owner]

Oh then if you’re moving I guess it doesn’t matter right?

[Asker]

I doubt she would date me because I’m not good enough

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you’re a cheater or scumbag of a guy then no you wouldn’t be good enough for her or anyone else until you become a better person. But if you’re just talking about looks or materialistic things then you shouldn’t do that to yourself. Not every woman is shallow or judges by what you have to offer and if they did then you wouldn’t want someone like that anyway. I believe it could be more about the timing of things, or maybe she’s just grown to see you as a friend and that just happens sometimes, I’ve friendzoned guys that have many other options aside from me. But it was simply because I’d grown to see them as a good friend, dating always ruins that somehow.

[Anonymous]

Rule of thumb: anything other than an enthusiastic "yes" is a "no". And NEVER ask more than once. Have some self respect.