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This is a safe space, but if you’d like to comment anonymously, be my guest.

I’ll explain a bit, what I mean by safe space. I mean respectfully express your opinion on body positivity. Not to just protect my sensitive ass self, but to protect others that may be reading this. Also because calling someone a fat pig or telling someone to eat a sandwich is flat out rude, and not necessary!

My opinion?

I am a fat girl, luckily I’ve been lucky enough to never get called fat to my face, mostly because I’m so shy and reserved in school most people think the only thing that’ll happen is I’ll tell the school, and they’ll get in trouble for being a mean asshat. But, in fact they are only partially right! Just because I’m shy doesn’t mean I won’t protect my feelings if you say rude things to my face. But.. if you say it behind my back, or when you think I didn’t hear that, I just won’t give you the time of day. But.. that’s besides the point.. a idiot in my gym class last school year said I was 300lbs, just so you know I’ve never weighed over 256, I weighed 256 that day, it was June my sophomore year.. I was hurt, I didn’t cry over it.
this person was the person to act like he’s nice to the shy kids, but then spread rumours and be a asshole when he thinks they aren’t looking or hearing. Anyways... I need to get to my opinion already!
I love body positivity, to a extent.. I do not believe being overweight at all is healthy, HEALTHY! I don’t think overweight or obese people are ugly, they aren’t! We aren’t! But.. I hate how people assume that because beauty standards are changing it’s ok to weigh what I did in June this year.. unless your 6’4’, it’s not!
Also, if you wanna know, I weight about 227 now, I know some people that aren’t my size don’t see that as a big achievement.. I do.. although mine wasn’t due to working out, I just kinda stopped eating as much (I say that in moderation)

Anyways, I just wanna see some opinions! Like do you agree with me?

Explain please... in what way, or ways, do you think this?

Maybe the girls can explain this even better! ... lol

If you do believe that, I will not judge you, I am not a radical feminist in any way, thus I am not trying to set a trap for you.

I can't speak for what others might say though, but I will not condemn you if you think you have a valid reason for thinking that way.

But, nor may I agree with you, depending on what aspects you bring up because I think there may be a couple of ways that woman are made to serve a man when we do it of our own free will, although maybe the word "serve" is not a good one because it gives the connotation of being a slave, which we are not.

Be nice and give us your opinion... PLEASE?

Spent a nice afternoon with a guy I’ve known for almost 10 years.. at the water near my house. We’d been intimate a few years ago before he moved.. but visits since have largely just been friendly. He did have a history of acting weird about other guys being nice to me before and after he moved.
When we went to the water.. he’d told me to bring my bikini and towels. I told him I had to get a new one so when I went to buy it.. he offered to buy it. When we got to the lake.. it was warm and he sprayed some lotion on my back. Not before he’d said oh nice when he saw my bikini bottoms. When he sprayed the lotion on my back.. he massaged the area and proceeded to my legs. It’s been long enough that I didn’t want to misread this as flirt.. I do care for him as a friend a great deal.. but it there is a part of me that enjoys his company like that. Opinions helpful.
I made a joke about gaining weight in my butt and he chuckled and said I can see that before he smacked my butt a couple times. When we went into the water.. he splashed me a few times. Just curious if I should take this as a friendly visit between friends or his way to show he’s still interested/flirt.

Opinions helpful

ex: guy friend who claims to be casual about relationships. Is intimate with female friend and has issues with other guys being nice to her.. both while they were intimate and after they hadn’t been. Does that sense of possessive stick around once there?