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Met this girl online and we hit it off well talking about nerdy stuff, but then just before we were supposedly going to set up a date she grilled me by lying and asking about politics and implied she wouldn't talk to me unless I talked to her on politics (Which not talking about is one of the basic rules of dating) but she was really trying to pry indirectly and see if I was racist, sexist, etc.. not well concealed either, the questions had nothing to do with real politics. I was like okay, it is understandable because you don't want to date someone with those negative attributes, and I elaborated with statements and examples on my understanding of different circumstances and how I am not a terrible person, then she goes into indirectly asking: do you like date raping people, and again I'm like wtf, but I patiently answer trying to be understanding, no I do not date rape people, but what sort of person asks that sort of thing when you haven't even met in person? So honestly at that point I was like I understand the reasoning but I can't help but be sorta pissed at being questioned like this. Plus on top of that, she had only brought up the 'political' questions up as a condition after I had brought up hanging out. Then after following through she was like, ah but I don't like that movie I would rather wait for the incredibles~ which at the time which I knew like 3 weeks away from the original time she had agreed to hang out on, though she obviously didn't mention on purpose. But afterwards she was somehow mad that I tried to find alternate plans after because I was 'trying to press meeting', what the hell, I just got lied to multiple times while being honest and took like 20 steps back and your still upset at me for no reason without giving any reason? I can understand if your scared of a dude being a player when you meet but Jesus!

I’ve always wondered this cause it’s as if it’s self implied that even though you aren’t in a committed relationship with that person that you should keep your focus on them. However the way I see it is that, being single and dating people is kinda like shopping. Shopping but without buying. And “buying” is when you single out that one person that your REALLY bonded with, connected with. In many many levels. But what do all you think about it?