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I was wondering since I was put through special education since Pre-School up to my Freshman year of High School for ADHD and Speech Impediment (and the fact that English was not my first language I spoke or learned at home as a toddler) and often felt embarrassed about it (making me feel like a retard compared to your average public education student) and still kind of do now looking back at it. Now as very young college-age adult, I box in the amateurs competitively as one of my outlets for ADHD (and some of my temper problems and stress I deal with from the real adult world).

So I'm gonna list a few of my stances on key issues and I want anyone reading to decide whether I lean more towards the left or right on the political spectrum, And sigh I can't believe I have to say it keep in mind this is from the perspective of a black male.

1. Racism is racism. Full stop just because they are white does not mean it's ok to be racist towards them.

2. I believe in equality between the sexes, and that is why I am against modern day feminism. Everyone should be given a chance as long as they have the will to persue their goal. Low expectations should not be the norm. And neither should special law exemptions that are easy to abuse

3. Inclusion for inclusions sake is a bad idea. You should hire and include someone based on their ability to contribute, other wise you're stuck with a bunch of incompetent dopes just for the sake of saying you're inclusive (I'm looking at you marvel)

4. Evidence is everything in a court of law. If you have no proof you have no case taking someone's word for it just because they said it happened is no different from mob justice, we would just go right back to the Salem witch trials. Male, Female, Black, White, Asian all should be equal In the eyes of the law.

5. I am pro-SMART choice. Iam massively against allowing abortions for things such as " it wasn't the right gender"

6. I think immigration can be a good thing, but I don't think opening the flood gates and letting everyone through is a good idea, make it easier sure but don't just let anyone in.

I could go on and on but I think those are the core issues.

So, where do I lean liberal or conservative? Left or Right?

What I mean is by this question is: can someone who doesn't have you preferred looks (to each their own) can become hotter than hell to you with the right personality. I think yes and I have some funny stories about it:
At my local Family Dollar, there's a woman who works there and she's HOT, and I mean HOT! She's got the genetic lottery working in her favor, she's got a pretty face, big butt, wide hips, perfect size boobs, and a small stomach, she could easily be on a cover of a magazine. But whenever I see her, she always has this real bitch attitude. She looks at you as if you dog shit, she's always sighing and rolling her eyes, and she always talks to people as if you did her wrong. To me, even with her beauty, because of the way she acts, she's hideous (and even as far as unfuckable) to me 😒 . BUT , another story: I remember I went to the same high school with this one girl who stole my heart (I didn't date her, or anyone for personal reasons). She didn't have the appearance I prefer in a partner, she was a little redneckish, she was quite a bit chubby (but she did sports like track and power lifting), and she was about 3 or 4 years older than me, but I will admit her face and her smile was to die for. But even with those "setbacks" (lack of a better word sorry) she was very nice, kind, considerate, and flirty. When she talked to you, sh made you feel special and important, and she did this this thing where after a conversation she would drag her hand across my chest in a flirty way as she walked away (which I adored). Even though her looks didn't exactly fit my preference, she found a way to put hearts in my eyes 😍. And to be honest, if I were ready to date at the time, I defiantly would have dated her. But what do you think? Do you agree? Do you have a similar story?