Search Results: making the first move

How I Saved My Marriage and What I Learned.

Hollywood doesn't tell you this but - relationships are hard. They take work. Even the most loving, simple, easy, beautiful couple has to work to make that happen. If anyone tells you otherwise they're selling something,...

ludorock

Yoda Age: 35

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Food & Beverage

myReview

Guide to a "Proper" Filipino cuisine experience

There are other myTakes about the food of their country so I'm also giving it a shot. Introduction Just in my opinion, I just find Filipino food to be so good like no bias even if i'm not so proud living here. Influenced...

Aiko_E_Lara

Master Age: 28

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Was she gay for me and hiding it?

in high school there was a girl a grade below. We met while helping out the basketball coach out. She was on the basketball team and I was a cheerleader. When we met she helped me off a tractor and she asked another girl...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he act like I was invincible? Tips on how to move on? ?

I met my ex off of a dating app when we first met it was literally perfect we started going on many dates. I feel silly now looking back because I should of known it was too good to be true. But it felt so real & nice to...

Bundavis96

Xper 3 Age: 30

Dating

Is a woman pursuing you for a relationship, or making the first move attractive to you?

It happened to me, and I am in a happy relationship.

SenseiSeptred

Explorer Age: 39

Thinking of Ex only When I'm Meeting a New Girl?

Long story short she was super toxic, it was a 4 years too long relationship, im happy it's over, I don't think about her or miss her at all. It's been a year and a half and I haven't spoken to her since the breakup....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Home Chats

Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant

So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Facebook Dating by accident?

My boyfriend showed me something on his Facebook and he accidentally clicked on something and a Tinder-like page popped up with a girl. When I asked him if he's using Facebook Date he denied it. I started checking when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why aren't most girls/women making the first move/asking for a relationship?

I know that society wants men/guys to do all the "work" but I guarentee that men aren't as picky as women so they will reject less. Rejection hurts people's ego but you got to live with it. Men/guys go through this stuff...

Ousaf1

Xper 5 Age: 25

A response to NicoletteXO's "How To Get A Woman If You Are An Incel"

User @NicoletteXO wrote a nice MyTake called How To Get A Woman If You Are An Incel . I wrote a response, but it was so long, I ended up just making it a MyTake myself. No, this isn't necessarily about MGTOW. I'm not...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Girls, is she trying to get attention? How does she feel towards me?

So I used to talk to a girl everyday, we were so concerned about each other almost all the time and she would always send me good morning and she cared so much, for example one day I wanted to explain why I wasn't fully...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Question for all men over 30 years : Do you care about the appearance?

There is this one guy I like who likes me too, he is 36 and I am 25. There wasn´t an opportunity to build a relationship with him or any kind of relation (long story) but now the things are good for us and I think about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

How can I be around my roommate after sleeping w the guy I was seeing and talking shit?

i had roommate 3 tell me that roommate 1 has been sleeping with him for the entire 3 months i was seeing him and roommate 1 had feelings for him. she knew that i never wanted anyone else to sleep with him and she knew...

icedcoffeeismyheart

Xper 3 Age: 25

Guys, what is your opinion on this?

Background: so i bought a instant pot vortex oven. I want to get rid of my microwave and put the oven there instead. The microwave ia a big one and the oven is kind of heavy too. I thought about asking a guy that i like....

Sangyoul2020

Xper 3 Age: 26

Religion & Spirituality

myReview

Integral Theory Part 1 - AQAL: All Quadrants All Levels

Integral theory was conceptualized and made famous by Ken Wilber; a philosopher. He became known within the psychology-philosophy intellectual community by this theory. It is meant to be a huge umbrella theory that...

Orangeandturquoise

Yoda Age: 29

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Does it piss you off that some people who are “intersectional” use that as an excuse to justify shitty behavior?

Last year a African female friend of my roommate aggressively came on to me in my private room (she walked in uninvited). She was making flirty comments at first which I didn’t mind. Truth is it had been a while...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I wish that I didn’t make the first move with the boyfriend?

I think that boyfriend does take me for granted because he didn’t have to put in any effort to get me. I somehow conveniently fell into boyfriend’s laps through a mutual friend. I made the first move and because I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)