Search Results: scared of getting in a relationship

(Super long backstory) How long does it take to get over an ex? It’s almost been a year now, is it something I just have to learn to live with?

I split up with my ex after we had been together for almost 3 years. He told me he wanted to take a break and that he would move out and stay with his cousin for 2 weeks and then we could decide if we wanted to be...

Anonymous

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When you are in a relationship or when you think about getting in a relationship do you ever feel scared that they might know your secrets?

So I’ve had the constant fear that once I get in a relationship she’ll know me for who I really am and it scares me for some reason. I feel like who I really am is unlovable. I’ve gone through a lot from being abused by...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

How to prevent a home invasion: Warning signs, precautions and castle doctrine tactics

Note: Unfortunately there are politically biased folks who are adamant in trying to infringe on our rights and liberties as law abiding citizens to protect ourselves and our families. Despite almost every state having...

ADFSDF1996

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Has anyone noticed how women regularly abuse men emotionally, then get physically reprimanded for it and then fear for their safety?

So I'm just coming to a realisation than most women I meet, no matter how interested they are in me, are packed with fear for their own safety (to a point completely ununderstandable to me). The only root cause of...

soleil2666

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Introducing your parents during dating, or after when its officially relationship?

It's a simple question, and probably many answers affected by many factors. But when is it best to introduce each other to their parents? Me personally, think it is best to do during dating. In that time, you are...

WildeWolf

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GaG's Female Users: Tips on Love and Dating

GaG's Female Users: Tips on Love and Dating. Thanks to all of the girl's @MzAsh @Sydneysentinel @AmandaYVR @SarahsSummer and especially Princessgrail for their contributions. So, without further adieu here are some...

Wowgirl30q

Editor Age: 37

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Family & Friends

Not wanting kids in the future is that a bad thing?

So I spoke to my mom about this when I was on my trip to visit her in SC. I told her that I don’t see myself having kids when I’m married. She kinda understood my feelings about it I mean I’m not in any serious...

ECityGirl89

Xper 6 Age: 36

Other

Pregnant and probably going to die?

I’m 23 and I’ve recently just found out I’m 6+ weeks pregnant and by recently I mean two days ago. The father of my baby told me he is in no way ready for a baby and will rather I get an abortion but will be there for me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We've been talking and she suddenly says she needs to "take some time for a few days". Should I wait or should I text her?

We've been talking about getting into a relationship for about a month now. We got a lot closer over the weekend but I can tell she's really scared of a relationship. She does like me and I'm reasonably sure there aren't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We've been talking about getting into a relationship for about a month now. We got a lot closer over the weekend but I can tell she's really scared of a relationship. She does like me

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Growing Up Abused

I was abused for 5 years. It started when I was 10. It's been 4 years since then and it still hurts. I remember every single thing so vividly. I wasn't allowed to talk, move, eat, or drink until she told me to. I was...

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Scared to be in a relationship?

I've never been in a relationship and at this point I'm scared. I was homeschooled through middle and high school so I didn't get to have a normal social life. I went to a community college where there wasn't much chance...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I deal with a woman who has trauma from a previous relationship?

We dated for 5 months 3 years ago, and it didn't work out because she had a miscarriage and shut me out because she was so frightened and scared. She never told me. She just shut me out of her life. I tried to talk to her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I miss my ex, what do I say?

My ex boyfriend of 7 months dumped me out of the blue about two months ago. We never fought or had any issues, and I was heartbroken and confused when he laid it on me. I grieved the relationship for several weeks, and...

Anonymous

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My ex boyfriend of 7 months dumped me out of the blue about two months ago. We never fought or had any issues, and I was heartbroken and confused when he laid it on me. I grieved

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I’m 22 and not sure if I want to settle down?

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We met when I was a junior and he was a senior in college. He is 4 years older than me though. Now that I’m graduated, and getting older, and trying to figure out...

Anonymous

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Boyfriend is leaving me, because he doesn’t know if he loves ex or not. What should I do?

I dated my boyfriend for 3 years, he’s 30 years old and things were getting serious. most recently he wanted to break up, because he says he keeps thinks about an ex and his first love. They dated for 6 months during an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I not meant to be in a relationship?

I dont mean to sound egotistical or narcissistic, but I'm very capable of getting into a relationship. How do I know this? Because there have PLENTY of guys that are very attractive who would try to chase after me. But...

lenlenxyz

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Can I make him change his way of thinking?

I was with someone on and off for around 2 years. Now, we're still friends but have been with other people. When we decided things weren't working, we agreed timing wasn't on our side.. We've started speaking more...

redpanda_

Xper 7 Age: 30

How do I deal with a commitment phobe?

I met this guy a couple of months ago.. He asked me out several times and it was really great we had amazing chemistry and he was the first to confess that he likes me a lot.. but then we had this conversation where he...

Anonymous

(30-35)