GaG's Female Users: Tips on Love and Dating.
Thanks to all of the girl's @MzAsh @Sydneysentinel @AmandaYVR @SarahsSummer and especially Princessgrail for their contributions. So, without further adieu here are some Girls from GaG, with some tips on Love and Dating.
Laugh at things he says. Make sure whatever he says is supposed to be a little funny, then laugh sweetly and happily when he says it. Again, make sure it’s real laughter; think of something that really is funny if it helps you laugh. Doesn’t matter if what he says is corny or lame; it will warm his heart and make him realize you like him when you laugh at even his worst jokes. Oh, and I like to toss my hair when I laugh.
Touch him occasionally while you’re talking. Don’t do this constantly, and do it to emphasize a point you’re making. Being touched is one of the clearest ways a guy knows a girl likes him. Touching his arm is best, especially when part or all of his arms are bare.
Touching his knee works too, but do NOT touch his thigh unless you want to send a clear sexual message.
Getting someone to be attracted can be as easy as putting on your clothes in the morning. Researchers have discovered that people find red and pink extremely attractive colors on women, and that men are more likely to become interested in people who wear those colors. Red is also associated with sexual energy and action. Pink is the color of femininity and softness.
Dog park, book store, grocery store, or even a club of some kind-- be ready to meet a potential date wherever you go. These places are are great places to meet new people someone interesting. A good time to make easy and natural conversation. Ask what kind of dog they have or if they have any good recipe suggestions. It's also a good time to make note of them interacting with other people nearby and see if he may be your type.
No Risk, No Reward:
I know you’re scared. Maybe you’ve been hurt in the past. Maybe you’ve been disappointed because of something that never really began. But one of the great, hard truths of life, is that holding back (in all ways, not just in relationships) hurts you more than helps you.
My advice is to try and incorporate this and see it this way – if you take a chance, if you go after what you want (such as that person), it may work out, and you may actually attain what your heart desires most. If it doesn’t work out, you have gained
strength in knowing that you tried, that you were brave. This is how you build true confidence.
Vulnerability is Key:
No matter how you meet, the most crucial factor in a successful, reciprocal, genuine relationship that lasts, is being truthful, being open, showing who you really are, and accepting the consequences. You cannot be loved unless you are truly known.
When you start having sex with someone new, tell him what you like. At first it may seem uncomfortable to talk about specifics but opening the lines of communication is essential for having a great sex life. Your man wants to please you. He would love to hear what it is that he’s doing right and what it is you want more of. Just let him know and he’ll happily oblige.
In the flirty or beginning stages of meeting someone, the power of having a little sexual mystery goes a long way. Talking bluntly about your own sexual history or desires right away runs the risk of revealing too much too soon. Instead, make a joke with a sexy reference. Then, progress gradually as the relationship moves forward. He’ll be intrigued to pursue harder in order to get to know the inner most sensual and sexual side of you.
Letting Him Know Tips
Often times guys will have a crush on you while you have a crush on them but nobody is really sure of the others feelings to be honest, a lot of times guys are just clueless. You have to practically club them on the head with your attraction. I learned one way to get their attention is with food. Like the old saying “The way to a mans heart is through his stomach“ so in the past I’ve put together little gifts of food. One time in college during Girl Scout Cookie Season, I found out my crush's favorite cookie was thin mint and made them from scratch at hom for him.
Take a Risk:
So many times I read on here about a guy or a girl having a crush for three, six, twelve months or even longer, and not doing anything about it. There’s really no point in having a crush on someone if you don’t actually let them know. You need an opportunity to spend time with them, get to know them better to develop a real relationship with them if you really want to be with them in the future.
Sometimes you need to just throw caution to the wind and jump into it head first. Chances are if you have a crush on him, someone else may too. The other girl acts first and then you get mad at the guy for choosing her not you, or mad at her because she stepped up when you couldn’t. Don’t let that happen you will always regret it. Say something, do something, take a risk, let him know.
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