Search Results: understanding a guy

Guys, Should I respond after he ghosted me?

I’ve been friends with this guy for years, and he’s had a crush on me since high school (we’re 23 and 24). Within this past year the line between friendship and more has gotten blurry. We talk a lot but haven’t done...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Hey ladies, is it ok to tell guys you don't like them because they're too short for you?

Im 6ft luckily but I have some friends that get shut down and made fun of by girls for being under 6ft. They are very vocal about how they hate short guys and most of these girls are very over weight. But if a guy says...

Naimgood

Xper 4 Age: 38

Break Up & Divorce

Moving on, help?

So I was talking to a guy for 1.5 years everything was going great he was going to get a remote job from home and then I ruined everything, it was long distance. we took a break and during that break he quit his job...

Emilyrich93

Xper 6 Age: 33

I need a bit of help of understanding the situation?

I am just about done with the lease of our apartment and I live with my ex. We broke up just about a month ago of this year from a two year lease. He wants and desires to rekindle a friendship and conversation with the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why it’s evil to think Evil is the “other”.

One of my favorite scenes from Sense8 (ok show) is when they visit a Holocaust memorial in Berlin. Even though this inscription doesn’t actually exist there it’s still a good thought: “Is the Holocaust an aberration or...

OddBeMe

Master Age: 42

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How much notice would you give if you were going to cancel a FIRST date?

I had a date last night, spent a decent amount of time getting ready, and drove to the place to meet up. Once I got there, I checked my phone and had a text exactly one hour before our date from him, saying something came...

Jasmine-Darkfire

Xper 4 Age: 24

Why do guys seem to like “bad girls”?

To be clear I know not everything is black and white when it comes to women. It’s not just good and bad. However, I guess I’m referring here to the types of women who are kind of just loud, spit profanity, go out a lot to...

Freckles1996

Xper 1 Age: 28

Friends with benefits with my coworker?

I’ve been working with this guy for a few months. We are both in our late 20’s and both in 5 year long relationships, which we are both dissatisfied with our sex lives. We recently started having sex about two weeks ago...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do they ship us and does he like me too?

So i work in gagare with three guys and i really like one guy... he's always gentle, holds the door open for me, always helps me, learns me new things, is patient with me, always ask me if im alright and takes care of me...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Why would our friends tease me and the guy I like and say "you guys look good together" when we are not together... yet... or maybe won't?

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

If simps are truly just nice guys like some women claim then why are they only nice to women?

Simps are so nice and empathetic, caring and understanding. Only when dealing with women though. With men they're either rude or apathetic. Where is that same empathy and understanding when a fellow man is suffering?

Deserter

Xper 7 Age: 31

Should I text him?

I really want to talk to this guy. I’m not attached to him or anything but I really miss him. He swiped up on my story today and I don't know. I miss him tho and I want to call but I don’t want to get rejected. He thought...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Entertainment & Arts

Top 10 Best Action/Fantasy Manhwas

That's my second myTake on here about manhwas, but this time with a different type of genre. I only had the idea of writing another one by all of your amazing ideas, everyone gave me great suggestions. Thank you very...

Greedier

Xper 6 Age: 20

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Home Chats

Love and Relationships in 2022: The Way Through

Dating. People. Relationships. They remain some of peoples' greatest curiosities. This is why many of us/you are here. You want to know how others think. Especially in terms of how they think about you. What is your value...

AmandaYVR

Influencer Age: 53

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Do I have a right to feel the way I do regarding my boyfriend and his ex and what are your thoughts on this?

My new boyfriend (34) I’m 32 of one month is on vacation and is having his ex stay at his house and watch his (technically hers) dog. He didn’t tell me about this until after the fact some how it came out in conversation...

Anonymous

(36-45)

5 Great Ways to Know A Woman Has Good Values and is Special for A Relationship

It's a long Take, guys. Sorry! I've been trying to keep them short like my last few but had a lot of details here I really want to share. These 5 great ways are not going to be your usual cookie-cutter concepts, rather...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Why did it never work between us? We love each other?

My best guy friend and I have been friends for 11 years. We fell in love with each other early on; however, due to poor timing and reckless/abusive tendencies on his part, we never officially dated. We would sneak around...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I tell my best friend about my BPD?

I (25F) met my best friend (56M) almost 3 years ago and we’ve been best friends ever since. There’s an age gap yes but we’ve adapted a father/daughter like relationship. He doesn’t have any kids and my father passed away...

Anonymous

(25-29)