Search Results: dating older guys relationship

How can I do this without causing to Big of an heartbreak?

There’s this girl that I’ve been talking to for the past like 4 months give or take. At the start we were doing good. Just meeting up after college class or before work almost everyday. Almost seemed as if we were going...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Does this guy sound like he would be inexperienced in relationships based on his history?

He’s now 31. He dated someone in high school but when college started she moved far away and they had a long distance relationship but he told me they never spoke or saw each other and it was pointless and ended. He had a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Which date is better to give a gift?

I have 2 people whose birthdays are in December. One is Dec 12 and the other one Dec 24th. The one whose birthday is on Dec 12 is a senir lady of 67 years old who I met just last year after his 47 yrd old son died...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex husband called my boyfriend to tell him I am his?

I am in my late 20s, he is 35. We were married for 2 years after a very short period of dating - 2 months only. He was older, the type of black haired dude with gray eyes, every girl wants to have. Funny, handsome and a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

What to do after she brozone me?

So me and this girl has known each other for like a year plus now and she ask me if I had a girlfriend and I was like no her reply did not come untill the next day and she said why don't I ask her out and I known she had...

Simboi

Xper 3 Age: 23

Relationships

Guys, 50+ OLDER MEN: If you had dated 18 years younger women, how was your experience like?

1. What were your initial thoughts and process from beginning to actually being in a relationship with them? 2. What are some difficulties you found in relationships with younger women in mid 30's 3. What was the...

muliebrity

Explorer Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend still chats with his tinder matches should I be concerned?

My boyfriend still talks to old Tinder matches The other day I was with my boyfriend and I asked him who one of his Snapchat best friends was, because I noticed that he doesn't really talk about most of the people on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do I have daddy issues?

I let this guy go here recently, and he told me how I have mad daddy issues. Was very angry with me. I laughed at him for it, knowing that I don't. Defining daddy issues, along with how I don't date older men or call guys...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Would you say that someone never cared about you or the relationship if they treated you this way?

My ex, never took one picture with me in the five months we were officially or the one month before when we were seeing each other. Never gave me one good compliment, only bad ones that I looked terrible when I was tired,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Does the Number of sexual partners really matter

Since joining a few days ago I've seen this question a lot. Seems people here on GAG are kind of obsessed about this. I thought I would give a shot at my first mytake on this subject. *Disclaimer, just giving it a shot....

Aerissa_Jade

Guru Age: 25

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Dating

Would you date someone who kept you a secret from their family?

Hi all. I (25 F) have had quite a lot of trouble in the past with relationships. My family is old fashioned and Muslim. I've explained that I don't want to be with a Muslim man as I'm not religious but they have a hard...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I can not figure out what is wrong with me?

This may sound a little dramatic, but honestly this has been weighing on my mind so much and I am completely unable to concentrate on my work. I do not know who else to go to, so please bear with me. This might be a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do I still have time to have kids one day if im 23 and single?

I feel behind at times when i hear a lot of people at work talking about how they had kids and some had kids at my age or even younger and here i am still single and no luck with dating or relationships. I like to believe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Silver fox playing me?

So, there's this older guy I've known from my past job. I'm 33 and he's 51 but he is a silver fox. At first, he pursued me and asked me out on a date then canceled because he said the age difference could be an issue and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend lied about his age, should I break up?

I find this a big deal and right now feel very disgusted. To me it's like he robbed me out of my choice. Now I'm wondering what else can he be lying? I don't see him the same anymore. I found evidence and he admitted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Need help knowing where I stand?

Hi everyone, yesterday I was talking to a good friend of mine about my current boyfriend. She asked if we had slept together yet and I told her yes. She then asked me who else I’d slept with. I told her that I lost my...

Alliqwerty

Xper 3 Age: 26

Dating

Found what looks like a seductive saved Snapchat photo sent to someone else on my girlfriends phone?

So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 years now, we’ve had our ups and downs and a couple breaks (3 weeks was the longest one), I’ve slept with a couple girls and she’s slept with other guys on them, she was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I want to be sexually active -for the first time- but I don’t want to pressure him. What can I do?

I am a 21-year-old girl and I have been dating a guy since the summer. He is really nice and I believe we are a good match, but he is quite introverted and afraid to speak his mind or engage in something intimate. He is...

Eva-Lily

Xper 2 Age: 25

Dating

I’m 20 and have never dated or had a real girlfriend?

I've never really thought about how old I am and how I still have never had any legit romantic relationships until I read a comment on Instagram that made me realize how odd/bad of a position I’m in. Growing up I had...

kindoftired

Xper 2 Age: 24

Relationships

My first girlfriend at 32? Am I a simp?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance.

I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance. I don't know if the good outweighs the bad. So in this question I’m gonna share with you the pro and cons.

Pros
1. Food: always cook for me on her days off. Even took the time to learn my favourite recipes.

2. Budgeting: She’s very smart with her money. We both have over 50k saved up with no debt. We have it planned to buy a house together and pay a low interest rate.

3. Open-minded: I can talker her about almost anything and she’s a good listener.

4. Very sharing: She let me borrow her car for 3 weeks when mine got totalled. Every time she gets bonus pay she’s willing to spend on me.

Cons

1. Has temper: Every time she has to explain something to me a second time she screams me. We end up fighting and not talking for days.

2. Conceited: She believes she so hot that every man in the world wants her. Her exact words “I have a big ass and D cup breasts. Every guy wants me”. Women should be confident but this is ridiculous.

3. Verbal/Emotional abuse: She tells me that I’ve never had a girlfriend because I’m socially awkward & weird. And how I’ll never find anyone better than her. And that the only reason she agreed to date me is because I’m handsome with muscles. And if I stop working out she’ll replace me.

4. Shallow: She refuses to date guys her age and only wants younger men. Nothing wrong with dating younger, but refusing to date your own age is dumb.

5. Male friends: She only has 4 female friends, the rest are guys. She even admitted a couple of them want her. She has a male bestie Alex who she texts almost every day. Whenever Alex has a girlfriend he barely texts her and she gets mad. She agreed not to hang out with guy after I told I’m uncomfortable, she said I’m “just being jealous”.

Is this how a relationship is supposed to be? please give me the best advice with your comments. My first girlfriend at 32? Am I a simp?

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