I find this a big deal and right now feel very disgusted. To me it's like he robbed me out of my choice. Now I'm wondering what else can he be lying? I don't see him the same anymore.
I found evidence and he admitted this recently; 4 years into our relationship. I was 19 at the time. I supposedly met a ''21 year-old''. In my profile I clearly stated ages 18-22. It turns out he was already 31 years old at the time but pretended to be in his 20's because of his youthful looks.
He's excusing it that age doesn't matter in a relationship, that love has no age. I still feel robbed, forced into continuing a fake relationship, a fraud. I wouldn't have continued dating him if I knew his real age from the start. I had the right to now and he stole that from me. Now I can't get over the image of my first time being with an older man and not a young guy.
I found evidence and he admitted this recently; 4 years into our relationship. I was 19 at the time. I supposedly met a ''21 year-old''. In my profile I clearly stated ages 18-22. It turns out he was already 31 years old at the time but pretended to be in his 20's because of his youthful looks.
He's excusing it that age doesn't matter in a relationship, that love has no age. I still feel robbed, forced into continuing a fake relationship, a fraud. I wouldn't have continued dating him if I knew his real age from the start. I had the right to now and he stole that from me. Now I can't get over the image of my first time being with an older man and not a young guy.
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He pretended to be a young guy with my family too. He told stories about being in college and gave them that false DOB. Even the date and month is a lie too. He said he lied because he always wished his birthday was in Dec 24 so he would give that date. I'm nauseaous at this moment.
