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If you treat a girl like she's worth more to you than anything or anyone else in the world, including yourself, then she's guaranteed to find you repugnant for treating her like that, and for making her feel valued by you. When you tell a girl that you love her more than life itself, that she's the most precious person in the world, that she's the most beautiful person in the world, that's she's smart and talented and amazing and incredible and all the rest of it... There's no easier or quicker way to turn any girl off sexually, lose her interest along with any hint of affection she might have had for you, and get ditched/rejected by her.

On the other hand, if you treat a girl like she's the least valuable thing in the world, worth less to you than nothing, then she's guaranteed to find you attractive for treating her like that, and for making her feel like you devalue her. Deny it all you want, girls, but it doesn't make it any more true. When you tell a girl that you don't give a fuck about her, what she wants or how she feels, tell her that she's a worthless cheap whore or slut who's good for nothing besides getting fucked by you, tell her that she's dumb and incompetent and worthless and lacking in all aspects... That's the definition of what dirty talk is. And that's what all guys have to do to get girls wet, to arouse them sexually and capture their affections.

Why is this? Why do girls universally find it so abhorrent and sexually unattractive for men to love them and value them, while finding it so desirable and sexually unattractive for men to hate them and devalue them?