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Search Results: paying for the first date
Do you mind if a girl wants to pay on the first date?
Paying shouldn't just be a ploy to test how your date is going to react, obviously. But still, how they respond gives you some insight into their personality. If they're pushy about paying after you've insisted, that's...
natured
Editor Age: 37 
Should I let him pay on our first date?
I've been talking with this hottie for a couple of weeks now and we get along really well. We talked yesterday about good restaurants in our area and I just casually asked him if he wants to join me for dinner and he said...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should we go Dutch or should I let him pay?
I've been talking with this hottie for a couple of weeks now and we get along really well. We talked this morning about good restaurants in our area and I just casually asked him if he wants to join me for dinner and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) 5 Reasons Online Dating Sucks
As it’s the run up to Valentine’s Day, I thought I’d drop a list of my feelings on the phenomena that is online dating and why it sucks. This is not really about how using online dating to hookup but more about the...
Blonde401
Guru Age: 36 How I Feel as a Nice Guy the Way Nice Guys get Stereotyped
This is about how misleading five misconceptions about nice guys are. Misconception 1: Nice Guys always buy roses for girls, hold doors, pay for dates, etc. I hold doors but like I would for anyone. As for roses and...
Unorthodox91
Xper 4 Age: 34 She talks normally but I can sense a bit of nervousness? Whats up with that?
A girl i like is also my friend. I asked her to go out and she makes excuses... okay fine... dont want to date. She knows i like her, never told her but its obvious and her twin sister (im good friends with her twin and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does she actually want to see me again or was she being polite?
Ok so I fell for my co-worker (i've been there 2 months) we vibed IMMEDIATELY, would park next to eachother everyday, tease, flirt, make eachother laugh a lot, she gets a new job and leaves. So I have to make a move, we...
TheRedHood
Xper 4 Age: 37 So, how was your past relationship and why did it end?
My last relationship was really sweet the first year, of course I wasn't perfect and had a bad past relationship baggage but we were really cute and I overcame my bad behavior and changed for her, later she changed for...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, a girl asked me out on a first date, should I pay?
The girl has a bit of a crush on me I think and she asked me out on a first date. I wonder if I should be a gentleman and insist on paying for her or if I should let her pay since she invited me?
not_me
Xper 4 Age: 36 What's the worst date you've ever been on?
Mine was with this guy I met at a club when I was 19. He took me out to dinner on our first date at an expensive restaurant and told me to order whatever I wanted. I didn't order much but he did, including a $75 bottle of...
adamjanovic
Yoda Age: 37 Went on two dates with this guy and now he won't stop texting me! What do I do?
We're still dating, but his communication has changed loads before we met. At first it was probably twice a day which is good with me as I work long shifts, but now he texts me every hour and then sends follow up messages...
Anonymous
(36-45) Table Manners Anyone?
Mother of god - if I'm paying for someone's meal the least I can ask is that they aren't rude,. I was eating out earlier today for lunch with a young woman from class. She was extremely rude, but it was unintentional...
ColinHarvey
Xper 6 Age: 30 The Four Stages of Youth
In order to keep this short and make it acceptable for this site I skipped the 1-4 stage, 5-9 year old stage and the 10-14 year old stage, Since most users on are fit from the 16-34 age bracket. The Stage of Discovery...
MassieMolina
Xper 5 Age: 29 Does he not want our relationship to go further?
I'm dating this guy. The first time we went out together I wanted to talk with him about work and he turned it into a date which lasted 5 hours. Since then we have been meeting up every few weeks. On our meetings he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is he being so nice to me on our dates?
I'm dating this guy. The first time we went out together I wanted to talk with him about work and he turned it into a date which lasted 5 hours. Since then we have been meeting up every few weeks. On our dates he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is he paying for me when he's not interested in me?
Why would he pay when he's not interested in me? I've been dating this guy for a month now. He's not made any moves on me and after the first date, I've always initiated the other dates. He has only hugged me. Whenever we...
Anonymous
(30-35) It Happened To Me: My Date Asked Me To Pay For Myself
You read that right. I paid for myself for the very first time on a date. And guess what? It sucked. I’m kidding. It really wasn’t that bad. I mean, of course I wasn’t jumping up and down at the chance to pay for myself...
Why are men still paying for dates? Women, why do you think this is fair?
Can anyone out there give me a logical reason as to why this still happens? I mean if we all really want equality, shouldn't women start paying their half? If we are going to make the same amount of money, share the...
gusGuy2211
Xper 2 Age: 39 Should women be paying their share on first dates? Why do you feel that way?
In today's society do you think women should have to pay any amount of money on a first date, or not at all? Interested in how men and women view this question. Also, if you think they should not pay after how many...
gusGuy2211
Xper 2 Age: 39 Girls and guys just pay for the first date if you asked them out?
I don't understand why people have arguments because of paying the bill. I never ever payed if someone asked me out. They wanted to date me and wanted to get to know me. Why should i pay? and i always payed if i...
Anonymous
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