Why is he being so nice to me on our dates?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating this guy. The first time we went out together I wanted to talk with him about work and he turned it into a date which lasted 5 hours.

Since then we have been meeting up every few weeks. On our dates he always opens every door for me and pays for everything even when I insist that I pay half. He asks me questions about my interests and my life and remembers everything I said on the next date. He stares and smiles a lot at me for no reason during our dates and he always wants to prolong our dates. If we have coffee he asks to go on a walk afterwards or if I want to go for dinner. We end up spending 5 hours together every date

He hugs me at the beginning and end of each date and teases me a lot in a playful way.

I was on a date with him the other day and we were sitting next to each other on the bus and I was talking to him and I noticed that he was staring at my face and smiling for no reason and I felt a bit awkward

I feel like because he insists on paying for everything, that he wants something from me in return eventually, like sex

why is he being so nice to me on our dates?

[Dim1213]

It is becuase he really likes you so he is being a gentleman. Often women see guys being good to them as something that has to be repaid back like with sex. Cause what else do guys want. However there are men who are after more than sex. They are after your heart. He is in love with you relax and enjoy it. Give him some of you in return reward his efforts. Not with sex but with you and to company. When he stares at you he is admiring your beauty enjoy it and return his affections by enjoying yourself with him.
Tell him what you want and what is on your mind. If he is doing to much then tell him that you also want to do things like get your own door. Enjoy that he is bold enough to still be a gentleman in this age. Most men are taught through hard experiences that women don't like a man like that. My friend who was also a gentleman over did it also. His wife and I decided to tease him about it one day and she did everything for him. On the way home they talked and now he still does things for her but not everything. They found thier balance and you two will also.
Good luck it sounds like you found a good man. 🙂

[Lecter]

Sometimes you will find a guy who is the nicest person and you will overthink the situation because it doesn't seem normal for guys to be so nice. on the other hand it does come off as creepy and he will probably rape you if he gets into a room with you. but that's why you are dating him, you can see how much he will put up with you and if he will always be that kinda guy even if you don't give up the goods. There are good guys in the world, you know.

[NyomiMcClinton]

This is something that you should want from a guy. The problem here is that you aren't use to a guy being generous and nice to you. Most females aren't use to that. A good guy who comes across as a gentlemen they think something is wrong with him. Now I do agree, i dont think that he should be giving his all to you so early because what if the two of you dont work out. It sounds like you dont really like him like that. He probably is hoping for sex sooner or later but do it when you ready not because he is taking you out and smiling at you every 5 minutes.

[lovydoey]

Cuz he likes u. If u don't feel comfortable just tell him u are uncomfortable or to slow down. But is nothing weird.

[Truthatanycost]

The reason why he is doing all of this is because he is misguided. He has placed you on a pedestal and does not see the real you, only some kind of fantasy. You clearly do not appreciate it but most women do not. You already think he is doing it to get sex. If you think that, then maybe you don't feel you have anything else to offer.

[konledgehunter]

Seriously I feel it like a horror story. Perhaps he wants your trust to achieve something horrible. The way he smiled makes it more mysterious.
How close you two are into relationship? Unless it's greater than 80% you should be worried and be conscious about him. Good luck!

[notallthere98]

It seems like he's just a nice guy who really likes you. If he hasn't pushed for anything more physical yet, I don't think that's what he's dating you for. I think he's genuinly interested in you

[robertglenn55]

Because he thinks you are a slut and he hates spending time with you.
Are you stupid? he's obviously in love with now
now you have to ask yourself how much into him are you to see what happens

[robertglenn55]

in love with you*

[MikeGaultier]

Because he likes you? Why would anyone ask another person out on a date if they don't like them?

[Ro0kie]

Don't be afraid to call him a weirdo and test him..

[AquaJIM]

He is admiring your beauty. He is interested in you intellectually as well. That is a good thing. If you have no interest in him more than friends, tell him.

Chivalry is still alive ! Especially to an Aquarius

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

It couldn't be because he likes you... that obviously doesn't make any fucking sense 🙄

[robertglenn55]

yeah probably she is his side chick while he is love with someone else

[JensonStatement]

He likes you. What should he do. Beat the fuck out of you?
What's the thing that females thinking that nice guys are wrong?

[Lithium65]

is it so hard to believe a guy likes you? and that great guys do exist?
has he hinted at sex?

[Anonymous]

He actually likes you. You should go ahead and have sex with him if you want a relationship with him.

[brickcitty22]

lmao

[ILoveChicks]

How about if I was your date? I would be super rude to you lol

[sodababe]

Lol you make it sound like a bad thing

[Anonymous]

5 hours every date? he would have kissed you but he probably likes you and enjoy you

[TheUltimateSucc]

Is it a problem to you that he is being so nice?

[NYkid27]

Maybe he's just a nice person and he likes you

[Dred1614returns]

He really likes you.

[lumberman9]

He likes you