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He agrees that it sucks for us whenever we have the monthly cramps but admitted that guys in society have it harder. This were the examples we gave:

Man doesn't want marriage nor kids, he's a loser wasting her time. She's strining her along and she needs to dump him.
Woman says doesn't want marriage nor kids yet, he should consider her feelings and maybe wait for her.

Man doesn't want sex (or for whatever reason isn't ready) and girl is upset, thinks he's cheating, he's a jerk, etc.
Woman doesn't want, her wish is respected otherwise it would be rape.

Man cries in public and very few people would help him.
Woman cries and she's immediately getting support.

Man gets stalked by an ex girlfriend and is excused by an ''oh she's just a bit crazy... what a drama queen''.
Woman gets stalked by an ex boyfriend and it's immediately taken into concern.

Man wants his child to be born but too bad if the woman wants to abort it, even if behind his back.
Woman can get to decide whether to abort the child or not even though it's both her and his child.

Man insults and screams at the woman and he's a pig for talking to a lady in that manner.
Woman does that and it's an ''What did he do to deserve it''.

Man doesn't get to decide if the relationship progress. The girl has to say yes to being his girlfriend.
Woman doesn't have to do the whole asking out too much (hardly if ever) and can easily get a boyfriend.

My partner was a high school drop out. He completed high school and is currently in college for me (according to him). Unfortunately, he is not taking his education seriously, he fails a class every semester and was only able to get C’s or D’s. However, I am very attracted to his loyalty, pheromone, and abilities to take care of house chores. He loves to make me laugh and happy. He is very protective, and he also told me that he wants to go to college.

I graduated with with a doctorate degree two years ago. I am older and ready to start a family. I make 5x more than he does. We would frequently run into miscommunication problems. He isn’t great with words, and I have a hard time reading his mind (I think it’s due to education differences). Financially, it’s stressful that I have to support the both of us, but worth a while if he finishes his education.

I am having internal struggle since he is definitely not taking education seriously. Wasting time on Facebook/other social media/watching shows instead of studying. Regardless of my advice, he is still failing classes left and right. I feel that I am just wasting my time with him. At the same time, he is visibly trying, but there’s little motivation for him to do well and complete college in a short amount of time.

What would you do if you were a girl? And what do you think he is feeling/expecting if you were a guy?

Why would someone lead you on and give you impressions that they want something serious with you if they knew they really didn't? I had a boyfriend tell me "I'm using you until I find someone better" ... why wouldn't he just dedicate his energy to finding "someone better" instead of wasting his time with me? For example, if you want a Russian girl, why waste your time with a Romanian girl? Or why give someone the false impression that you want to marry them when in reality, you want something else? Just a mind game?