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This older man (I'm 20, he's 60) emailed me saying he was interested in doing large scale business with me (I'm a small business owner). It was a great opportunity for me. He invited me formally through his organization and said his company would pay all travel and hotel expenses because they were really interested in my work. He also sent me an itinerary that included dinner and a tour. I did my research on him and he was legit. Since he was a married man with kids older than me, I asked to meet his family when I arrived. When he introduced me to them, it made me feel a little better since I would be touring with him.

He fed me a lot of bull about his family saying they didn't treat him right, etc. He also told me not to tell them about the dinner and tour because he claimed his wife didn't like him doing business dealings with other women. I figured it was his private matter so I didn't say anything to his wife. I also trusted he was so much older and had daughters of his own so he didn't see me in a sexual manner. He also kept emphasizing how much he liked helping young people like me because we were the answer to a better economy, etc.

Well, long story short, his wife and daughters ended up calling me after I left for home and started calling me all sorts of names. According to them, he loved and wanted to marry me. He also claimed he had made out with me even though nothing like that happened. His wife claims I broke their home. She and her daughters have been calling me multiple times everyday and have screamed all sorts of nasty things at me. That being said, they do admit that this is not his first time talking to other women. Why does the "other woman" always get blamed when a man cheats on their significant other? I didn't even have any bad intentions or pull any moves on him. He was the one who invited me. He was the one who lied to me and his family. He was the one with bad intentions.

Who do you think is to blame in this situation?