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This guy Jake and I have worked together for 4 months. We are both awkward and VERY shy. He has NO experience with girls and has never had a girlfriend. He gives me mixed signals and flirts or doesn’t flirt. After a month of dealing with his BS I asked him (note he ran away and avoided talking to me direct 3 times prior to this) he very hesitantly rejected me and then instantly felt bad. I was upset and for whatever reason he was upset too. He briefly talked about it with my friend on Saturday and he said he felt really bad and he doesn’t even know himself if he actually meant what he said. Today we worked together and I avoided him like the plague (because I was still hurt) but he tried to get me to talk and was trying not to be awkward about it (which people were impressed he did it because he’s always awkward). I wouldn’t talk to him and would give him dirty looks and walk fast past him. He also saw me looking like I was about to cry and he looked like he felt really bad. There’s also a new guy at work and he was flirting with me but then stopped when Jake came into the picture and Jake looked very jealous about the new guy but the guy completely backed off with flirting with me. He also kept coming down and looking for me as he walked (I worked in a different area tonight). Jake was flirting with me because he was getting very close to me and making jokes and going oh yeah I think you need help with that in like a low tone with a grin while we were standing next to each other and Jake sat right next to me when that new guy was sitting across the table from us and Jake was taking my stuff and just being really flirty. I don’t get it And at one point tonight we were both so close and looking at each other like we were gonna kiss but then I stopped it and was like Jake aren’t you supposed to be in (his area) and he’s like maybe with a grin and I walked away and was like bye Jake. And. He’s like cya on Saturday on the way out and I’m like yep bye Jake lol

There is no factual answer too this question. This question is purely opinion based.

but rejecting somebody just as a friend (not dating) only because they are ugly looking is obviously going too hurt the person being rejected feelings quite a lot.

Anybody who thinks it is okay, good or acceptable too hurt other peoples feeling should go get their head checked by a doctor or pyshciatrist.

Hurting other peoples feelings on purpose is anti-social behaviour.

A transgender woman who was rejected by her Facebook love interest as a man says they are now a couple and in love following her transition.

She was still living as a man called Aaron when she first approached 28-year-old Jared Norris on social media, believing he was "cute". At the time, Jared kindly rejected her.

But two years later, after Erin had "come out as trans and a woman", he liked one of her pictures on Instagram and they began dating.

Today, they are a couple - with Jared saying he loves the fact that his "beautiful" Marilyn Monroe-lookalike girlfriend is "willing to be herself". Erin, who has undergone two years of hormone replacement therapy and breast augmentation, is now hoping for gender reassignment surgery.

She and Jared went public with their relationship within the first couple of months. But since then, they say they have received hateful messages and even death threats online. She and her partner have received hateful messages and even death threats after going public with their relationship. The couple defend their relationship, now two years strong. They say that ‘love is love’ and they have chosen to ignore the haters.

She added: “Prior to dating Jared, I had been seeing people but nothing serious came about because they were afraid to tell their family or friends. “They would tell me they really liked me but couldn’t risk their family knowing I was trans and that was what hurt the most.

Erin, who is happy being "passable" as a transgender woman, still hopes to undergo gender reassignment surgery in the future.

But her partner says he already thinks she looks beautiful and will "love her exactly the same", regardless of the surgery.

“She wants to look more feminine, but to me she already looks beautiful," Jared said.

“I will still love her exactly the same, she is still the same person regardless.