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Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant

So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Dating

Are these early red flags?

So I’ve met this guy through online dating and we’ve been chatting quite a bit. I’ve told him I’ve recently been through a bad experience with someone else and said I just want to focus on work and finding my feet with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is an intensity early on a red flag?

I’ve met this guy through online dating and we’ve been chatting quite a bit. I’ve told him I’ve recently been through a bad experience with someone else and said I just want to focus on work and finding my feet with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are these early red flags?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I be concerned?

I have been speaking to a guy I met through online dating and we’ve been chatting quite a bit. I’ve told him I’ve recently been through a bad experience with someone else and said I just want to focus on work and finding...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What was the sluttest thing youve ever seen/done?

I will go first. My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and 3 months, when we met. He said he was seeing another girl (person i didn't like, fake persona, they werent dating. Just benefit friends)....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do you think these are early red flags?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is this a case of stalking or low self esteem (or neither)?

There's this guy I had class (college) with 3 years ago. First I noticed he would always sit behind me and even made his friends move with him to sit behind me when I didn't sit in my regular seat one time. After that...

Lashawnsx3

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Are these early red flags and should I be concerned?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are these early red flags?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does my male friends with benefits have feelings for me? What are the signs?

I’ve been in a friends with benefits situation for almost a year. We started as a hookup because he had just met but we became friends during the encounters. We see each other once a month sometimes more. Since the...

maricris3

Xper 3 Age: 31

Dating

Is he fishing for compliments or insecure?

Met a guy at a bar in the middle of July. I instantly pursued him. Asked him for his number and everything. The very first date he said he was ugly but i told him he want and didn’t pay it any mind. After a few dates i...

WinCx3d

Xper 7 Age: 29

Dating

When you’re in love with someone does it make you see them as physically more beautiful than they are to others?

I really am in love with this guy.. I love him, for the first time I’ve ever been in love so I’m asking this. When we first met there were physical things about him that I was almost turned off from, like his upper...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I have noticed so many people using subliminals to look like a celebrity or having features they would like to have. Why?

I don't understand why so many people have insecurities in the first place. Also cam someone please explain to me how some hidden words behind music can change your entire face and even BODY? Are people really so out of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Listen to the Science, listen to the Experts... that big tech, NGOs, big pharma, government agencies, and the media tell you to!

It is important to listen scientists and other experts. They are not always right, and you should never follow anyone blindly, including experts, but it is important that they can be heard. That ALL of them can be heard....

genuinlysensitive

Yoda Age: 42

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Guy's Behavior

Does he unfollow me because he doesn't want me anymore or the other way around?

I've been seing this guy for almost half a year now. Things are good although we're not really going towards anything, but I think we both had that agreement in mind since we only cuddled and have sex whenever we met....

Anonymous

(25-29)

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The Injustice of Beauty: A Warning About the Hazardous Chemicals in the Health & Personal Care Products You Use Everyday

A Little About My History So, like many people, I have allergies. I may have had them all my life, but it wasn't until I really pursued getting medical treatment, that I eventually discovered that many of my 'colds' I had...

AmandaYVR

Influencer Age: 53

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Dating

Guy wanted to go out with me but hasn’t called back yet?

hi everyone, so I met this guy a couple of weeks back. I was out in the city going shopping and noticed a guy helping out at one of the places. when I had least expected it he suddenly approached me, we started talking...

LucyG

Xper 5 Age: 27

Guy's Behavior

Awkward for years?

About 6-7 years ago (maybe even more), I went to my baby cousins first birthday party. There was a guy there, he was the same age as me. He would always attend the party every year because his dad was a close friend to my...

bunnyboo364

Xper 5 Age: 21

Break Up & Divorce

Don’t know how to end things with my 3.5 year boyfriend?

Hi everyone - to start off I (24f) have only ever dated my current boyfriend (23m). I truly do love him but, as cliché it is to say it, I don’t think I’m in love with him anymore. We’ve been together for about 3.5 years &...

Anonymous

(25-29)