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I met this guy on a dating site a full year ago. We never had sex and we went on a total of two dates.
(The second date, I went to his place and we smoked weed. I had an edible that ended up being too strong for me and I actually blacked out and had a few panic attacks.
As embarrassing as that was, believe it or not, he was still into me and wanted to see me again.)

Shortly after that, I left the state for my own personal reasons (this had been decided before meeting him), and he made a point to keep in touch with me. I am moving back now and he still texts me and apparently hasn't really been with anyone else (so he says). I would have expected him to move on or start dating someone else and forget all about me but he hasn't.

But what leads me to believe that he just wants me for sex is that, during the span of my absence, the only reason he would text me is to tell me he was thinking about me sexually. There was one time we talked (texted) about politics but it was short-lived because I got distracted. This is pretty much the only time I can remember him being interested in talking about something other than sex. I have asked him about work but he has very little interest in talking about himself. He also never asks about what I'm doing with my life or shows much interest. Mind you, I usually don't text him first, and I know that texting is not a good indicator of human interpersonal interaction, but we've never talked on the phone before due to the casualty of our previous encounters so we never established calling as a precedent. Now he's been texting me asking when I'll be back.

Do you think he has waited all this time for me just to have sex with me? He is a confident guy and probably wouldn't have to try too terribly hard to get another woman. I just can't imagine a guy waiting on a woman for a year whom he had only gone on two dates with, just to have sex with her.

I had a new relationship to a foreign european man for two weeks now. He is handsome , good body and charming.

I have been fool twice before by Guys who just used me for sex by my own race through their manipulation ( like only until 3 dates) and now I decided to have a relationship with a foreign man.

On our first date , it was undeniably that we are attracted to each other and he was inviting me to his house but I refused first.

On our second date, He went with me in my staycation in a resort hotel. I was attracted to him and we mutually agreed to have sex together and also relationship. But I saw girls chatting him but I don’t mind them

On our third date , we fought because he was mad why I am still in online dating site and I cannot date in valentines because of work. He blocked me and I immediately went into his house and brought him a cake. He was not in house that time and went outside to buy food with his motorbike. It was raining that time and so he return to his house to meet me and he was really wet and worried. He then kissed me and hugged me. And something again happened to us. But still I saw girls chatting him which he denied that are only friends

On our fourth date, we are planning to date together outside. But he is asking a favor from me. He wants to borrow 15,000 for his house rent.

He no longer have money and also I think he was not lying because all his ATM accounts are already empty or blocked when we tried to withdraw a money on a bank.

He is an unfortunate foreigner whose money were spent for nothing. I don’t know if I should help him. I already paid 6000 for his health insurance

I am afraid to make a mistake again , he was already my third sex and I want to make our relationship work. I want only to give myself to him and no more to anyone.

Should I lend him money? What should I do?