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Search Results: how to ask for a raise
Is it a Red Flag if you Have Not had a Relationship since High School? A Cautionary Tale of Believing Old Tropes.
Thanks to @Justneedtokno for inspiring the telling of this true story. You can visit her question here: Is it a Red Flag 🚩 if a woman has not been in a real relationship since high school or college? Here is the story...
Floppy2112
Xper 7 Age: 52 A very serious lesson that isn’t so obvious to most
I believe Jesus taught that bad deeds lead to bad ultimate results and good deeds leads to good final outcomes. Bad deeds cannot lead to good results because the person suffers for what they did. Good deeds cannot lead to...
Confessions of a Brown Skinned Girl: The Good, The Bad and Confused
"Light Skinned". "Brown Skinned". "Dark Skinned". "Caramel". "Light Brown". "Medium Brown". "Dark Brown". "Light Caramel", "Tanned". "Light Mocha". "Coffee Brown". "Pencil Brown". "Chocolate"... Everything that's listed...
MelaninQueen21
Xper 5 Age: 26 Should I read articles of dating, sex and relationships to feel more grown up?
I’m 27 but don’t really feel like it. Raised in a conservative home, and also because I’m on the autism spectrum and have anxiety, I haven’t had much exposure to dating. To prove I fit in with the young adult community,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he trying to verbally abuse or manipulate me? (see my other question on acct CaitHarmyy)?
My (now dumped) boyfriend when we initially met about 7 months ago would obsess over me and say you're the most beautiful thing, etc look at me a certain adoring way 24/7 shower me w compliments throughout the...
Anonymous
(25-29) My boyfriend said he isn't attracted to me and contradicts himself a lot (same guy as my other question) what do u think about this guy, abusive?
My (now dumped after my previous question) boyfriend when we initially met about 7 months ago would obsess over me and say you're the most beautiful thing, etc look at me a certain adoring way 24/7 shower me w compliments...
CaitHarmyy
Xper 2 Age: 30 When to ask for a raise?
I recently got an internship, were I fix stuff. Right now I do maintenance on the stuff I fix for free but, sooner or later I would want to get played. How long should I wait to ask my boss, like 4-6 months (I...
RiverUndertheSkY
Xper 5 Age: 22 Scardy cat in relationships! *raises hand* Tell me what to do, please?
There is this guy in my school... He is pretty handsome, very tall (love it) and clever. I adore his vibe and he is really cool. He's semi popular in the whole neighborhood and one of the most popular kids in school...
Anonymous
(18-24) Ever experienced some super satisfying karma?
I used to work for this company 2 years ago. They were mostly really nice but hired this lady that was a total bitch to me. They even admitted they saw she was a total bitch to me for no reason. Still no change. So I got...
loves2learn
Master Age: 43 Is he interested?
I frequent a place where this particular guy works and he's a very quiet and shy guy. I've noticed him looking at me as I pass by or as he passes by for probably 8 or so months now but we've never talked. About a week ago...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do I have a right to be angry when women try to friéndzone?
I’m a mature man and I can accept tactful rejection. I’ve had women respectfully tell me their not interested and I graciously bowed out. I have a saying “attraction isn’t a choice but respect is”. But when a woman...
Anonymous
(36-45) Feel bad about asking for a better raise with my promotion. Did I handle this correctly?
I'll try and keep this short as I can. I have a graphic design degree from a fine art school. I know stupid lol. Been working at my company for 3 years now. My previous 2 jobs were not that great in pay, but I made...
wtf636
Xper 5 Age: 39 Guys, Does he like me?
There is this guy I met recently at work and I think he may like me. 1. I have caught him staring at me and stealing glances a lot. Sometimes he gets embarassed when I look back and instantly looks away. At the...
Diamond791
Xper 2 Age: 25 How would you feel if your boyfriend suddenly started getting clear nail polish on his nails?
My boyfriend just recently got clear nail polish applied to his nails after he took me out to get both of our nails done. We have done this before where he has gotten a manicure. I didn’t see anything wrong with it,...
Anonymous
(25-29) So I just started talking to this guy it will be 2weeks on Tuesday and I’m so confused what do I do?
Now this guy is different than all the other guys like his mom raised him right and that’s why I really like him he has manners he’s smart he’s sweet he’s charming he’s handsome but we’ve been on one date and he wants to...
TattedQueen
Xper 4 Age: 33 How to deal with toxic friend?
This question is for my girlfriend. She is sensitive girl who love friends equal to or more than family. She have a group of friends in new college and all are assholes. One of them is kinda psycho. She always harass...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this wrong of my parents?
I have a question that I can't get anyone to answer. The only thing my therapist ever says is that I should talk to my parents about family therapy. The question is, is it wrong for my stepmom to tell me I'm the cause of...
Alex2100
Xper 2 Age: 19 How far until kindness turns into attraction?
To make it brief as possible. I work graveyard and last December my coworkers daughter, whom is unmarried and pregnant was leaving her shift, I approached her to ask if she needed someone to walk her to her car, she...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does my grandpa think im a bad person?
Okay, embarrassing stuff ahead: I was reading this romance book in the living room and my grandpa was sitting across me and he suddenly asked me if he could just see the book I was reading because I was giggling way...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my birth state where I am from or is it the state I grew up in my entire life?
I always get confused when someone asks me where I am from. I was born in a different state (NY) than the state where I grew up (IL). Most of my family still live in the state where I was born (NY) since that's where my...
Anonymous
(30-35) 