But when a woman asks me “can we just be friends” after i went through all the effort of approaching her, setting up a date (usually paying for it, having to lead the conversation and show courage I have a gut reaction of like being slapped across the face. To me she just see’s me as a “nice guy” she can take advantage of. It’s a huge sign of disrespect.
I rarely raise my voice to women but when they ask that I’ll usually say “NO! Fuck no!” I calm down after saying that but I wanted to get the point across that about how much I hate that. It stems from having women exploit me in the past for that. I hate it with a passion. I’ve met grown ass women in their 30s who still try to pull this shit.
Now if a woman says something along the lines of “hey i appreciate your efforts but tbh I’m not interested” I can totally accept that. I might be disappointed but I’m not angry.
But what do I have a right to be angry when women try to friéndzone (I never accept that shit)
When I say “get angry” that doesn’t mean I go psycho or lose it. But I do express my feelings that it’s insulting for a woman to confidently assume I’m “okay” with that scenario despite everything I did earlier shows that I had every intention to date. She has absolutely nothing to offer me as “just friends”
I definitely don’t hate anyone who turns me down. That’s just life. I’ve had to turn other people down before but I did it respectfully.