Is it okay to be frustrated and sometimes angry towards women?

[Anonymous]

I feel like as a guy you're never allowed to be angry or frustated towards women because then you're labeled a misogynist or an incel. But it's not like I'm angry or frustrated with women for no reason. When you feel like every girl lies to you or leads you on, you can't help but feel bitterness. And the frustrating thing i hear all the time is that "not all women are the same" and I'm sure they're not all the same. But every girl i ran into exhibits the same kind of behavior whether it's lying or leading me on. And somehow I'm the bad guy when i call them out on it. I know even talking about this that somehow I'm still the problem. I know that's going to be said. And you know what sure, maybe i am the problem. But am i 100% the problem? And i really wish i didn't feel this way. I really do and wish i could be more positive. But how can i when i keep getting the same results? And you want to know the worst part? Feeling like you have no control over your situation. Am i in the wrong for feeling the way i do? I'm not a misogynist or incel. I have to say that because i know a comment like that will be mentioned

[Anonymous]

Specific women? Totally okay. All women? Nah.
It seems like you're pretty conscious of that though, which is good. Bitterness is like a sickness. It seeps into our psyche and festers there, filling us with hate. Bitterness makes it easy for someone to blame a whole gender, a whole country, or any group, for the mistreatment they suffered from a few individuals.
Some things to consider before blaming yourself, or a group of people:
I see you're 18-24. A lot of people in that age range still aren't very good at dating, or communication in general. It's easy to lead someone on if you aren't paying attention, or are trying to avoid confrontation.
A lot of people, men and women, aren't very compassionate. They will do their best but in the end they'll treat you however is easiest for them.
Dating is hard, and mostly a mix of rejection and mistreatment. Shit, dealing with people can just be hard in general.

What I would recommend, is that if you don't feel like dating is working out right now, stop. Don't ask anyone out, politely decline if someone asks you out. Just be yourself for awhile and figure out how to be happy and content like that.
After dating for my entire 20s I started struggling with it about a year ago for my own reasons. So I've spent the last year just being single, and focusing on what makes me happy. It was tough at first, but now it's fantastic. Honestly, I don't know if I even want to go back to dating.
But if I do, I know I will go back more balanced, confident, and happy than I ever have been.

[MEWHITEMANMEBAD]

That’s a waste of energy and time letting women live in your head tent free. You are letting them win. Focus on yourself cause those women you are mad at, are sure as hell not thinking about you

[Saccharissa]

Everybody gets defense when called out on something, question though is whether it's a kneejerk reaction, or if they make a valid argument. And well yeah, women in general definitely do seem more at home in the victim role than men, and it's a lot more "acceptable" for them too.
You're never wrong for emotions you have no control over, and in my opinion you're never wrong for expressing how you feel (if done in a civilized manner.) Doesn't matter if someone agrees with it, or likes it, you don't need their approval to feel the way you do or be the person you are.

[truthbeknown]

I can understand that. But at least now you are understanding what is not working or the type of woman you are not good with.

[Anonymous]

It's logical to feel that way.
You just might want to lower your expectations of them in the future.
What else can we do?
Hope they get better? LoL!

[oldoldold]

All women or a specific one or group you met?

[Asker]

A handful i met

[oldoldold]

If you meet them you can express any emotion you like