Why do a lot of women get so provoked and irritated at me they try to start a fight?

[Anonymous]

Look a lot of women try to get super close to me...

Some even try calling me out on things unprovoked.

It's like I literally trigger women just by existing..

I dont get it

Most of these women are super pretty too.. what's the big deal

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry but if a bunch of women are allegedly having the same feeling of hatred towards you then it’s safe to say that you are the problem. I don't know if you’re oblivious, don’t have good social skills and lack a filter on things you say or what but you are doing something.

[Asker]

I'm honestly just being me... I dont bother anyone
I'm actually shy when it comes to new girls so I dont say much. I smile and go live my life.
However most of these women say it's my personality. I'm super nice and I'm motivational and a determined person. Yes I believe I am the common denominator the problem but how can you hate on someone when half the girls I barely spoke to LOL

[Asker]

They love me then hate me.
Or they just automatically hate me off the bat its weord

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe your idea of being nice and quiet is subjective. Like me, I’m nice as hell, pretty quiet and I’ve never had women want to fight me over it lol. If they ever did well it wasn’t said to my face. So it’s interesting how my experience as a sweet person garners an entirely different reaction than you with alleged similar traits. The reason I’m telling you this is because you’ve gotta be very real with yourself in situations like this, and I don't know if you are. Being a kind hearted person doesn’t make many women want to fight you, like that just doesn’t make logical sense. Maybe it is something about your personality or how you interact with people, it could come off as fake and Ingenuine, even condescending depending on how you speak.

[Asker]

Okay let's start over.
2 instances.
1 where I dont know these girls at all.
I used to go to a gym and work out.
One of the trainers really liked me and always checked me out. I have a great body. I work hard for it... I have a really big bum too. All of a sudden these girls would pull their pants down kn booty shorts flaunting their asses at just me. I say just me because the guy was sitting down and these girls pulled their pants down where he couldn't see anything. It was weird and cold. Many girls do this to me. They poke their ass out to me.. but when I did it back they looked at me in disgust. I totally played it off like I wasn't. But they acted as if I ran over their dog.
Another scenario a really popular girl at my school was competing with me the whole time. She was way beautiful than I super popular and nice super smart. Yet she wanted everything I had and did. She was cunningly smart and years later it hit me... she'd ask everything my likes and dislikes and literally copied everything I did she even ask ed d my crush to prom and he said yes lol I don't know what I did to these girls because as quiet as its kept I honestly really just want friends. I dont get attracted by girls competing with me. Friends dont do that. It raises jealousy I've been best friends with 2 girls who became rivals with me for whatever reason. I know I'm not perfect but damn. I ended up not really having nobody

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not really sure what to make of the gym situation, so I won’t get into that lol but with the girl from high school, I think we all experience having that person, I know I did. There was a girl who quite literally copied everything I did, from my outfit style to nicknames I gave our mutual friends, I even added eggplant colored streaks to my hair (these were scene kid days) and she had the same thing the next week. She took the guy I was interested in to our winter formal and copied the fact that I wore tennis shoes to dances instead of heels, the list goes on. Girls being competitive with you I believe is a natural thing too, and I’m not trying to draw comparisons here but I literally went through that all my 20s, I’m 31 now and still have it happen. But perspective is everything, so if these are the situations you’re referring to when you say women hate you or whatever, I don’t think that’s the case. It could be some jealousy, which is normal, but I doubt it’s hate. Just take it in stride, sometimes it’s better to be alone anyway. Now it’s just me and my boyfriend, and I’m ok with that when I look back.

[HighValue]

If you and them are both single, they could see you as potential competition and dislike you for that reason. I have seen that IRL before.

[Asker]

That's lame. Cause I low key want friends lol

[HighValue]

Maybe try finding friends that aren't single so they aren't threatened by your presence. Or find ugly friends that see everybody equally as threats so they don't get irritated with any specific person. I don't know what else to suggest.

[Guy13]

Because you keep behaving the same way over over again expecting a different outcome.

[Asker]

And what's that?

[Guy13]

I would not know but I would considering asking them if I was you.

[dustybiker]

Woman tend to react to a trigger.