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Search Results: how to deal with shy guys
If a guy acts emotionless, cold or avoidant towards you, what does that mean?
There is this guy in my class that I have to work with along with other people in a group project. Anyway, I've noticed that he sort of purposely avoids me a little bit. (I know some guys do this when they are shy, or...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why I'm Giving Up On Dating and Finding a Wife: Love is Dead
Today's women are just too complicated for men to date. If you are poor, then you are not good enough to date them. If you are wealthy, then all they want is your money. So you lose either way. I am poor and girls just...
Speedbird_747
Xper 4 Age: 41 Guys, SHORT, what to do after what happened?
We met a year ago and knew we liked eachother but nothing happened. He is 25 and I am 20. We had been texting frequently the last couple of weeks 3 weekends ago he saw me at a bar and came to me, hugged me told me he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why am I such an inferior person? I hate myself?
Im 19 and I've been going to a counselor but I still deal a lot of depression and anxiety for a long time. Here's why I think I'm inferior. 1. I have social anxiety 2. I'm shy 3. I have ZERO confidence in myself...
Bigman117
Xper 6 Age: 29 I think this guy might have a crush on me even though he says he isn't interested in dating anyone... what do you think?
I kind of think this guy has a bit of a crush on me, but he told me he isn't interested in dating anyone, so I'm not sure if I'm right. First I want to add that he does know I like him but I really don't try to talk to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this guy too shy to take initiative?
This new guy actually waited for me to get in touch with him. In person, he is not shy at all, but he never seems to have confidence to take initiative. Even when I asked if he waited for me to contact him, he just kind...
KandiKoolaid
Xper 6 Age: 41 What is it in some women that makes guys not take them seriously? I need HELP with a concrete situation?
What made me ask this question was that I experienced something that made me feel extremely sad. I've never had many guy friends, mostly I guess it's because i am kind of shy and tend to stand my ground. But for a year...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, do you want a girl to pursue you or do you prefer to pursue her?
so basically, i've been "pursuing" my crush, it's not easy, i'm shy as hell, but so is he, so it's not going anywhere if one of us doesn't make a move (i'm 80% sure it's mutual) it seems to be going well, but really...
Anonymous
(30-35) There is this girl in my class I like but what am I supposed to do?
There is this girl in my class who I know for a month now, and we have a great time togheter in Class, or on App etc and have a click on many things. (Like a lot of stuff) But now comes the ugly part... I asked her out...
Gillian0100
Xper 4 Age: 28 Why do ONLY really attractive women check me out?
It's the weirdest thing, it seems like only really hot girls check me out. Average girls rarely look at me and if I look back at them, they make a sour face. When I catch very attractive women looking at me, I look back...
Bonjourno
Xper 4 Age: 38 What's this guy's deal?
So I recently joined a gym and there's a guy who just comes out of nowhere and is always physically close to me. If I'm sitting by a machine so is he. I feel like he's mirroring my moves as well. And he gives me a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a guy keep pining over a girl but when he gets the chance to be with her backs off?
First he asked me out, I said yes. It went well. Then he wanted a second date but when I agreed, he started to back off. When I left him be, he came running back and we had our date and again it went well. For a while I...
Anonymous
(30-35) What am I doing wrong as guys won't even give me a second look or chance?
I'm a 25 year old single female that has never had a boyfriend and I'm starting to lose faith I will ever get married one day and find the right person. At first when people meet me they say I'm a nice shy girl, being shy...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does this girl at the gym avoid eye contact but continues to get near me?
Hi all, What do you think it means if a girl avoids eye contact but continues to get near you even if you ignore her? Details: So there's this girl at the gym, she comes in the same exact time I do, everyday. When I first...
misterfit
Xper 4 Age: 30 Girls, Asking A girl out?
Girls let me ask you these few sentences would they actually work for you or how would you precive them. I wanna ask this girl out, I am on the right track and I know this for sure, she has already pretty much haven given...
jbonez32103
Xper 5 Age: 28 Can you be shy and confident? Or are shyness and insecurity a package deal?
Especially on here, it's like people think loud and boisterous people all must be confident, and shy quiet folk are always insecure. So can shy people be confident? Because the thesaurus lists shy and insecure together...
BuchitaBuchys
Guru Age: 34 
What to do about my crush?
So I have this very small crush on this guy and I don't really talk to him. I'm very shy and don't interact with many people but my friends want me to try and talk to him more but I'm not sure if I should since I am...
Anonymous
(25-29) Top 5 Things Guys Can Do to Guarantee a Second Date
The date's over and you're driving home, agonizing over one question: "Will she really want a second date?" Sure, you parted on good terms; the obligatory "I'll call you" probably passed somebody's lips, there may have...
Fathoms77
Editor Age: 47 Why Putting in an Equal Amount of Effort is VITAL for a Good Relationship
So this should already be obvious to most people, but looking at my own relationship, it seems not everyone gets this idea. Me and my boyfriend first met when he was 12 and I was 14, but only recently got to know each...
Anonymous
(25-29) Emotional Fulfillment: What Women Are Really Looking For In Relationships, Part 1
So I wrote a very extensive take on what men looked for in relationships, and this will be in the same lines at that other one, but I’ll be focusing on what women want. I decided to go into more informative, and reference...
legs_n_sheets
Editor Age: 37 