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My husband has agreed to a divorce. I asked for it because he was emotionally, mentally and at times physically abusive. Things have been deteriorating and I decided I should get out early before things get really bad.

Previously, he agreed that even though I asked for the divorce, we would announce it together and explain to the kids we will continue to love and care for them but just in separate places since none of this is their fault.

Today he said he wants to just pack his bags and leave and it's on me to explain it.

I have messaged with people on G@G who have told me how damaging it was when their dads just dipset instead of facing them when they were leaving.

So am I being unreasonable to ask that we do this as a family unit or is he right and that since I want the divorce I should shoulder the full burden in announcing it?

I got hired for a position for a part time job. When i interviewed, I told them not to hire me if they can’t give me the 20 hours minimum that I required. They said “Oh, that’s no problem at all, we can give that to you and more if you want it”. So with that being promised to me, I took the job. My first day I was supposed to start in January after the training. Training was done and a month later I was just sitting around waiting for a case. That was strike 1. I was really mad because I was trying to save money for the summer and they were already fucking up. So in March, they find a case for me and it’s only 8 hours a week. Strike 2. I accepted it with the guarantee that they will fill it in in the next couple weeks. Yesterday, I quit because I still only have 8 hours and I was wasting gas and time at that point. They got mad and told me to at least put in a 2 week notice instead of just quitting. I told them no and that they lied to me from the beginning and that if they didn’t have the work that they shouldn’t have promised me something they couldn’t fulfill. Was I wrong to leave the way that I did? My husband says I should have given a 2 week notice, but I feel like what I did was understandable.