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People often say that people pair up with those that are like minded, and that the good girl pairs up with the good guy and party girl with party guy etc. However, this is an ideal concept and the world is anything but ideal. The reality is that people don't often pair up with those of like minded. And in the case of women being good or bad really doesn't hold much weight when it comes to their attraction towards men. What takes paramount is looks, money and status.

So your a good man. However, you are born average looks and you don't have high social status or wealth. Overall around your time in your early -mid 20's you won't get a good woman to look at you. The reason is because the good woman would be chased by and/or pursue after better looking men, rich men and/or more popular men than you for relationships and looks (hypergamy).
So as a good man your left out with a choice of continuing the course with a lack of love or switching from going after decent women for girlfriends and target lower quality women.

So should good men who are having a hard time getting the good, woman and switch to lower quality women for love?

Example:
Rather than going for a girl who is nice, decent, doesn't sleep around and come from a good family with morals and values maybe start being more open to date a girl who is a stripper and has loose morals and values on things. Tends to be very sexually open also.

What you guys think?

I've heard getting a hot girl to be your girlfriend is not worth it.


Some arguments I hear from people spouting this who have been in relationship with hot girls is that they tend to have princess complex and expect you to put up with their behavior just because they are attractive. You have to deal with guy's constantly white knighting and staring at you and your girl when your out in public. Another common problem i heard is that when it comes to sex hot girls tend to be a little more lazier than girls who are average or even ugly;think lazy star fish.

So basically the general premise people are saying is that girl who are hot thinks their look carry considerable weight for what they bring to the table for the relationship.
Meaning that they believe being good looking should be nearly enough weight to bring to the table for a relationship because it elevates your status to both men and women and you have a girl with good genetics who can pass on those genes to your kids. So everything else about her whether she is boring, lame/selfish in bed, and has negative traits that for a normal girl you'd probably not put up with should be overlooked because she is pretty and not only that you should treat her really well even though she doesn't reciprocate in the same fashion.

Is this true in your opinion?