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Search Results: slowing things down
Is he using me? having a hard time trusting me? being truthful when he says he simply doesn't know what he wants right now?
He was pursuing me, i rejected him. It was a bad time for me. After I'd forgotten that happened, we hung out as friends and kissed. I felt something, so I asked him out to see where it could lead. It was a busy time in my...
dragonfruitA
Xper 7 Age: 31 I am worried, please help?
So I have been chatting with this girl I met on a dating site for around 8 days and mostly we would text eachother for a huge portion of the day. She said she likes me and we agreed we will go on a date after all of this...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think Trump's idea of opening the country back up in weeks, is a good thing?
I personally think it’s bad, locking down is needed for about 1-2 months because it will slow it down and less people will die. If the virus is not contained millions of Americans will die. Remember that every...
yucel_eden
Yoda Age: 31 What can be expected from taking things slow again with an ex boyfriend?
Will things be consistent? Or will things be a little up and down? I just want things to work.
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it at all possible that he realizes I have feelings for him?
I dated a guy who wanted to rush into a relationship with me almost right away after we'd just met but it turned out he's a very enthusiastic person overall so I figured i'd give him a chance to prove his emotions are...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you feel like you are out of fashion so you try to get new things?
I used to be like that. But now I am slowing down. It’s kind of boring though.
Asianguy123
Explorer Age: 55 The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships
I've been thinking about this topic, having seen many questions which dance around this idea, and today I decided to write about it. What am I talking about? This idea that men are still the initiators when it comes to...
Tell me, did I make the right decision in not trusting this guy or was I too judgmental?
I met this guy whom I suspected of lovebombing me (the manipulation tactic). We had chemistry from the first date but not until the third did I start developing feelings. He ruined it when he had a complete breakdown when...
Anonymous
(30-35) My mom and the man in our house?
Okay I’ve been living in the same house since I was born and there’s always been this man that lives in our house that I see and don’t necessarily know but have always said hi to and like that you know? He talks a little...
noone89
Xper 6 Age: 26 I WANNA MAKE THE FIRST MOVE BUT DONT KNOW HOW?
So I’m pretty sure this guy likes me and I wanna talk to him before we’re out of school (cuz of the whole corona virus thing) I’m pretty sure he likes me because of these things that happened. One being were always...
Anonymous
(18-24) What Should I Do?
Hi! So I am in college and the guy i like just started grad school. We live about 30mins away from one another and met on a dating app. We went on a first date and it went SUPER well. He started asking me questions about...
Arudy
Xper 3 Age: 27 Why We Need to Calm Down About Coronavirus
*Before I start I would like to say of course the virus is concerning and people have died from it. The purpose of this take is to reassure worries and focus on prevention rather than fear* Coronavirus has now spread all...
Anonymous
(25-29) boyfriend doesn’t want to see me as much anymore. Why could that be?
I have been with my boyfriend for a year. The first few months we saw eachother very often and he wanted to regularly see me and we even were intimate very often. Now things have slowed down. We see eachother only once of...
Anonymous
(36-45) I need help understanding this girl?
I met this girl on Tinder back in February and we just instantly connected. We have a lot in common and matched each other’s “crackhead energy”. I like how she’s straightforward, honest, caring, and supportive. We were...
Anonymous
(25-29) If a guy really likes you is it normal if he wants to take things slow sexually?
The guy I am dating was over last night and we were making out. We took a break for a moment and he was like wow- I like you so much. He’s like I really want to take things further with you sexually, but because I like...
andieo
Xper 6 Age: 40 Dating After an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
A year and a half after leaving my emotionally abusive ex, I just started seeing another guy. He's very respectful, is fluent in three languages, is a hard worker, doesn't want kids, and has been patient with me wanting...
1truekhaleesi
Editor Age: 29 How do you deal with someone who is argumentative?
I asked my boyfriend this morning a yes or no question. I asked him if he wanted to play Dragon Ball Z with me. He got mad and started yelling “LAST TIME I TRIED TO PLAY YOU SAY YOU WERE TIRED AND EVERYTIME I SAY NO, YOU...
babyygirrll
Xper 4 Age: 25 Calling All Moderates Out There
Okay, right off the bat I'm going to apologize here. Before you even start reading. Because this is going to be [too] long, I already feel it. But try as I might, I just cannot say things as briefly as some [men,...
Is it okay to just let him know how I feel?
I dated this guy with ADHD back in the summer. He was very overwhelming, wanted to get serious almost right away and bought me flowers etc. I wanted to take things slower as I am an inexperinced person so I said we can...
Anonymous
(30-35) I am very slow with my emotions and this always happens to me. I am sad. What do I do now?
I met a guy last year. He was intense. After the third date I suspected him of being a player due to my paranoia of having gotten hurt before and he took it hard and got very sad because he felt he had hurt me. I...
Anonymous
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