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This is about the recent ex I found out had a girlfriend the duration of our relationship and gave me an STI. I’ve been going to therapy trying to heal, he called me some hurtful things like a hoe and said I meant nothing so I left him alone after expressing how i felt. That was almost a month ago, now he started blowing my phone up telling me to pick up. I was annoyed and finally answered asking what did he want and he began accusing me of telling people about us and bothering him and his girlfriend.

I haven’t done anything and I saw the girlfriend followed me which I found weird so I told him no one is bothering your relationship and since I meant nothing why does my words matter. He told me well if you not then ok just leave me and my girlfriend alone. He said I liked and unliked and kept following and unfollowing her and told people we were exes. I just laughed but now I’m concerned on who is talking about me, and why the girlfriend is stalking/lying on me. I told him if he’s happy I’m happy since after finding out he cheated on her with me and gave an STI she’s still with him I didn’t care. I just want to understand why now…

So my boyfriend was playing a video game and I asked him to use his insta because mine wasn’t working well (not to self he doesn’t use social media like that so he doesn’t have the insta app so he uses it on the internet) anyways he said no when I asked saying that he would have to log in etc so while he was playing the game I went on and I saw that he looked up his ex girlfriend I asked y and he said out of curiosity and tbh I don't know if this is normal to look up ur ex etc because I don’t so when I said that I freaked out because he said “I looked out of curiosity to see if she’s dead or alive I don’t hate the girl” tbh I just wanna know if I’m being over dramatic or I have a right to be mad. Also we met in October 2020 and he came from gorgia to NEW YORK we met at work and apparently her birthday is New Years, his sister is friends with her so back den he lied and said she was in the car with his sister when he called so out of respect he wished her happy birthday but 2 days ago I found out that he actually called her and wished her happy birthday because he said he promised before he left gorgia that he will call her on her birthday He also went along and said that she was his best friend. I just wanna know how I should feel cause it’s 2022 now and we still together. Am I being over dramatic or I just be mad.