Does it seem he’s fixated on his ex girlfriend and lies to me?

anonbrunette99
he got locked up at 19, he was in a relationship with her for 5 years they known each other since he was 13. she left him 3 months into his prison stay for his best friend before he even got sentenced, he put her through hell and cheated apparently, she’s been away from him since 2016, since then he hasn’t seen her, spoken to her, heard her voice or even heard of her

but.. he tells me he’s over her his friends tell me he isn’t, how he said they grew together so they understand the inner child she’s perfect she acts like a woman and not a little girl. he denies this and said it’s lies he reassures me he wants me however in the past during arguments he’s told me I’ll never be half the woman she is and all this crazy stuff in another argument he told me to tell her he misses his “pinto bean” which he in the end apologised for. Blaming his anger….. he even said I was more obsessed with her than he is.

is it not wild to be like this whilst reassuring me he doesn’t want her
Does it seem he’s fixated on his ex girlfriend and lies to me?
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