Girlfriend has gone out drinking with a friend, had a few issues in past when drunk. Wondering if I should have any reason to be worried?

[robstefan1994]

So not sure what replies I will get, just wondering if I am overthinking. So hoping to get peoples thoughts

My girlfriend has gone away to see family and see one of her best friends, we met up with another one of her friends, which I was going to meet for the first time and it turned out she had been drinking since like 1pm and turned up half drunk to dinner and then wanted to try and drag us out to drink. The best friend she is going to see supposedly likes to drink till late and party.

In the past, we have gone out a few times drinking. Something has always ended up happening, for example the first time. My girlfriend likes to be touchy feely when drunk... we started speaking to this guy, she ended up patting him on the chest when saying something and shoulder, he took it as she was into him and wanted more, ended up with him saying he wanted to f**k her. She was drunk and carried on as normal chatting to him and ignore what I said about it, didn't remember and realized next day when I said.

2nd time, we were out and she put her head to someone else's head staring into each others eyes, was already awkward as I had my friend there and he was finding it strange and was shocked. She said it was due to the other guy insulting her or something, but then carried on chatting as normal. He tried to touch her breast and she pushed it away, he was a d*ck and had a girlfriend, with her being touchy feely he took it as she wanted him and said she wants me i'll fight you for her and about him wanting his girlfriend to have a lesbian experience. We left shortly after and she was upset and mad at me, my friend went as he just found everything awkward and next day she couldn't remember anything again.

While away she is now drinking with her best friend, had 3 Guinness within an hour, first thing they decided to do after so long and I feel awkward about it. She keeps saying "if I am going to have a guiness I need multiple I can't just have a few"

[Claudia233]

Sounds like she loves the attention. Most of the time you can sense when a guy is hitting on you. She plays stupid.
Besides there is nothing worse than a drunk woman. It's UGLY! Every time at the end of the evening they would find a reason to be angry at you and create the greatest fight you can't even imagine or expect.

[Anonymous]

I feel for you.
Party girls are literally the worst to try to have a serious relationship with.
If she'll drink and do shady things in front of you, she'll do way worse when you're not there. I honestly think you should put that woman out of your head and go out with your buddies. DON'T EVER SPEND A SINGLE NIGHT SITTING AT HOME WORRYING ABOUT WHAT THAT DRUNK SLUT IS UP TO. Just realize that she's going out to cheat and she's full of shit. You should go out and party too.

[In_Trance]

This is absolutely retarded thinking. If you don't trust her, break up. If you think she's going to cheat on you it's because you've given her reason to cheat.
I really don't understand why you or anyone else for that matter has any time of day for this crap.

[SphynxUK]

Are you sure you are 27?
I think you need to grow up. She’s an adult. You sound like you don’t trust her. How is she to blame for the way men act around her/other women anyway?

[robstefan1994]

yes the other people acted that way around her... but at the same time her being touchy feely/giving out her social media to guys taking advantage knowing it upsets me slightly as I wouldn't and haven't done the same isn't nice, it's a bit disrespectful

[Secret6620]

I honestly think you should be worried if her inhibitions are compromised while she's drinking.

[kuladiamond]

Well uh sounds like she has a drinking problem, this can't possibly end well.