Do you guys think he's mad at me? or wants to break? ?

[Anonymous]

basically my boyfriend and i got mad bc i felt as if he doesn't put effort or me first but he's like of course i do and i apologized bc i realize he does so he kinda yelled for a bit mind you we are both stressed with school (finished in 2 weeks smile) also he said he feels controlled by me so i yelled at him Thursday and he didn't have the opportunity to rant bc he had class and left

Friday i wanted to talk and he exploded how stressed he is and stuff but we agreed Saturday we would go out and chill another thing how i mentioned how he feels controlled so for some reason he doesn't want me to party with his friends so i he was gonna go out Saturday and i kinda wanted to go

he likes separating his friends and girlfriend long long long story they know who i am though and i know them

i dont know but whatever it is i respect it anyway he thinks im controlling him and then again on Saturday he felt like i wanted him to stay instead of going out and once again we fought i apologized and i left crying but we kissed like 3 times anyway Sunday came i needed his help with hw we didn't fight we just chilled as he basically did all my work

he decided to stay home which i thought was odd and we usually kiss when we depart but he was all like "im gonna go ill see you tmw" and went to the bathroom... disregarded me and i just left he called me Monday just to check some small essay and asked if it was good enough edited for him and sent it to him and also Sunday we didn't fight... we were just focusing on my project lol but Monday he didn't call at all after the essay thing he called around 1 but didn't hear from him since i know. he's very busy but could he still be pissed? you know how i mentioned how he feels like im controlling hiim/ ?

he also said he feels like my life revolves around him well i didn't call at all

do you think he's still mad?

he also usually works at night

as in on projects so i dunno

what do u think?

Updates

+1 y

IGNORE THE :"7 minutes" I don't know why that pasted

[Pyrofox]

Just tackle hug him and tell him you believe in him and your gonna give him some time to figure out his anxiety and when he does. He knows where to find ya. 💙

And if he asks why you are giving him space just tell him you know he hurts inside when he gets mad at you. And tell him you will just wait patiently for the loving confident side to return. And give him your like sweetest smile and like cheek peck. And if he asks why the tackle hug you can jokingly say I thought maybe knocking some sense into might work if the kisses are falling short o... o and watch him like facepalm.

[Asker]

im also worried he is still mad at me or something i just feel really bad that is all :/ and the fact that he didn't call today at all

[Pyrofox]

I'd say just do it it's what my girlfriend would do if I ended up in a funk. Sometimes it just takes knowing you aren't alone. And that someone is holding the door open to the future.

[Asker]

ill message him
later today then if he doesn't message me i guess. i just dont even know if he wants me to message him or not. i dont know anything lol. he didn't seem mad on Sunday and called me Monday to check some of his grammar for something…. but didn't hear from him all day and been up all night thinking about it i dunno

[Pyrofox]

I'd say in a situation like this just spontaneously just show up. Something like this to me just is kinda asking for the need to be just surprising. Just show him why he chose you. Just go like full wife mode. It's okay to be your other halfs like lighthouse if they are losing themselves.

[Asker]

i will
update u! thanks!

[OlderAndWiser]

It is possible that he has become interested in someone else and is pushing you away so he will be free to pursue his new interest.

[Anonymous]

He sounds way to toxic to me, and a break would be good for both of you.