What do you guys think?

[Bracefacesummer]

This guy I used to mess with had cut me off out of nowhere now trying to come back but I’m still hurt about the way he did it he claimed it was because he was mad at me but still that don’t give you the reason to just up and go and also change your number felt like it was someone else involved. So I’m no longer interested he keeps writing me trying to see me and stuff but I don’t go so I asked him did he know a guy name such and such he replied and asked me to come see him I notice he try to make me come see him or would start calling once he notice I want to go out or something because I don’t really go anywhere. So he avoided the question I guess he thought I was joking about me saying I sent the guy a friend request but once the guy approved it I was so happy I sent him screenshot of it so he can see I wasn’t joking I have my eyes on someone new. After he viewed my message I noticed he blocked me on Facebook. But I don’t get it he’s doing him and he heart all these women pictures and think I don’t know but I see it. I don’t get why he blocked me.

[Anonymous]

Relationships need transparency.

[Oliverlogan263]

It sounds like this guy is playing games and not being very respectful or considerate of your feelings. A few things stand out:

1. Cutting you off out of nowhere and changing his number was immature and inconsiderate. Even if he was mad, that's not a healthy way to deal with conflict.

2. His attempts to come back and see you now seem disingenuous and self-serving. He doesn't actually seem interested in making amends or rebuilding trust.

3. Avoiding answering your question about the other guy is shady and suspicious. He likely knows who you're referring to.

4. Liking other women's photos while not being committed to you shows he's not ready for a serious, honest relationship.

5. Blocking you on Facebook after seeing the screenshot suggests he doesn't want you to know about who he's talking to or interacting with on social media. More secrecy.

In summary, this guy has shown himself to be untrustworthy, inconsiderate and immature in how he handles conflict and relationships. His behavior indicates he's just interested in meeting his own needs, not caring much about your feelings.

It's good that you're no longer interested and focusing your energy elsewhere. You deserve a partner who communicates openly, treats you with care and respect, and commits to the relationship when issues arise. This guy does not seem capable of that right now.

Moving on and pursuing a connection with someone more emotionally mature and communicative is likely the healthier choice here. Don't waste any more time or energy on this guy. You've got this - you know your worth!

[Bracefacesummer]

No he blocked me when i sent him a screenshot of the boy approving my request he know I would’ve never done that but I’m sick of him so I found someone I like and added him so when the guy approved it I sent it to show him he probably thought I was joking about me saying I sent someone a request that I like. Lol.

[Bracefacesummer]

But thanks for exposing everything I appreciate it thank you so much

[Oliverlogan263]

I apologize, I misunderstood part of the situation. Based on your clarification:

- It seems this guy blocked you after you sent him the screenshot of the other guy approving your request.

- It was a move to make this guy jealous and show him you're moving on, since he had treated you poorly.

- His blocking you indicates it worked - he got the message that you're serious about moving on and connecting with someone new.

- While jealousy moves aren't typically recommended, in this case it served the purpose of getting this guy out of your life for good and showing him you won't tolerate his previous unacceptable behavior.

- You can feel good that you took a positive step toward moving on from this guy by connecting with someone new who respects you. Stay focused on that.

- Try not to overanalyze why this guy blocked you. The "why" doesn't really matter at this point. You got the outcome you wanted - distance from him so you can move forward.

So in summary, while jealousy moves aren't usually the healthiest approach, in this situation it helped deliver a clear message to this guy and gave you a clean break. The blocking was likely a reaction to realizing you were serious about moving on.

Stay focused on connecting with people who treat you with care and respect. You deserve a supportive and caring relationship, so don't settle for less.

Again, I apologize for the initial misunderstanding. I hope this revised perspective is more accurate and helpful for you. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

[Oliverlogan263]

And you’re welcome

[Anemone978]

He was just using you.. he blocked you because he doesn't need you anymore.. men are garbage, never sleep with a guy who won't commit..

[Bracefacesummer]

Lol I thought he blocked me because I sent him a screen shot of showing him I requested another boy and that the boy approve it lol

[Anemone978]

well yeah that is why he blocked you lol.. since guys are territorial he figures he don't need you now since you are looking for other guys..

[Anonymous]

The other people suggested, "

It sounds like this guy is playing games and not being very respectful or considerate of your feelings. A few things stand out:

1. Cutting you off out of nowhere and changing his number was immature and inconsiderate. Even if he was mad, that's not a healthy way to deal with conflict.

2. His attempts to come back and see you now seem disingenuous and self-serving. He doesn't actually seem interested in making amends or rebuilding trust.

3. Avoiding answering your question about the other guy is shady and suspicious. He likely knows who you're referring to.

4. Liking other women's photos while not being committed to you shows he's not ready for a serious, honest relationship.

5. Blocking you on Facebook after seeing the screenshot suggests he doesn't want you to know about who he's talking to or interacting with on social media. More secrecy.

In summary, this guy has shown himself to be untrustworthy, inconsiderate and immature in how he handles conflict and relationships. His behavior indicates he's just interested in meeting his own needs, not caring much about your feelings.

It's good that you're no longer interested and focusing your energy elsewhere. You deserve a partner who communicates openly, treats you with care and respect, and commits to the relationship when issues arise. This guy does not seem capable of that right now.

Moving on and pursuing a connection with someone more emotionally mature and communicative is likely the healthier choice here. Don't waste any more time or energy on this guy. You've got this - you know your worth!"

I absolutely respectfully disagree. He can not be further from the truth.

[Wise4myage]

Don't worry or stress over the how and why, and just block him and cut off all communication.

[Bracefacesummer]

He already blocked me

[Wise4myage]

Just make sure you block him.