What do you guys think?

[Anonymous]

I’m dating someone that’s 20 years older than me.

His friend told me that he’s not with women around his age because with me, it’d be easier to manipulate and to shape. Another time I was hanging out with 2 of his friends too & they’re talking about the downside of dating someone’s older, like the sex won’t be as often as before & blah blah blah.

I didn’t think much at that time but now I start remembering those moments & it makes me uncomfortable. What do you think they’re trying to do? Did they try to make me break up with my boyfriend or what?

[Berethor]

20 years is a big age gap, and they kinda telling you the truth, still willing to date him?

[Asker]

Those friends are both woman. 1 is his ex, 1 is someone he hooked up with that now dating his cousin

[Berethor]

I see, that's why they worried about women his age, men tend to prefer young women.

[Asker]

So what do u think they’re trying to do? We’re they genuinely trying to warn me or what

[Berethor]

They clearly don't want you to date him, but they didn't lie to you, so it also a warning.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[boggboss]

If his friends are telling u that then I'm suprised u didn't see the red flags lol

[Asker]

It feels like they’re saying it sarcastically. I don't know that’s how I feel when I recall the memories

[boggboss]

U have had toe interactions where his friends have negatively commented on your relationship and u think that'd sarcastic did u even bring it upto him

[Asker]

Those friends were both women. 1 is kinda his ex, another one is one woman he hooked up once/twice then she’s dating his cousin. Both were considered as his friends
That’s why I felt like they’re trying to push me away from him

[boggboss]

And did u speak to him about it

[Asker]

I didn’t. It happened long time ago but I just suddenly remember it now

[boggboss]

So what do u expect from gag we can't answer for him and if the people that told u this are not trust worthy then why are u bothered

[Asker]

Just want to understand from different point of views

[boggboss]

Either what they said was objective truth or they was lying no way to know and with u nit telling him no way to judge how he would have taken it

[Asker]

He’s someone who doesn’t care about this thing & he’s neutral. If I tell him, he will just say okay okay. That’s it. That’s why i didn’t tell him

[boggboss]

And u wouldn't have asked him why they said that

[Asker]

He’ll just say to not take anything seriously & that I’m just overreacting

[boggboss]

How is it a overreaction if his friends are saying he is with you because u are easy to manipulate if this is how he solves situation I see what they meant lol

[Asker]

That’s what he usually says but from the beginning, I always fell they don’t like me dating with him. That’s why i feel like they’re just trying to push me away even tho my boyfriend does really like me

[boggboss]

If your boyfriend stays friends with people that actively try to destroy your relationship he is a idiot that dont respect the relationship and if he is able to convince u they are just joking every time clearly you are easy to manipulate

[Asker]

Hmm well I guess you’re right

[boggboss]

Is this your first relationship?

[Asker]

Not first but first time after a while. Why?

[boggboss]

Just sounds like you are new at this but fair enough

[Asker]

Yup, I still have so many things to learn

[kareka]

Maybe..
But guys like girls younger
Be with ur boyfriend if u love him and kick his friends out of ur life

[Asker]

Well those events happened long time ago & now I have kicked them from my life. I don’t talk to them anymore.
but apparently my boyfriend doesn’t like to kick people from his life. He’s friends with almost all his exes

[kareka]

Ohh so let me ask u still with him huh?

[Asker]

Yup…

[kareka]

Do u think it gonna end by marry?

[Asker]

Nope. I don’t even think am gonna marry anyone ever

[kareka]

Wow..
And do u live with him?

[Asker]

Yes. Why?

[kareka]

I wish u nice life ❤️

[Asker]

Thank you. You too!