What do you guys think?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend said he was tired to talk to me and because of his hard work. I understood him and I didn't get offended about it I believed him too I even said "good night" to him he just left it on seen. But I had an idea to create an account and send him request... he immediately accepted the friend request and texted "Hi 👋🏻 We know each other?" And then I texted him from whatsapp "We can break up now I'm done with you, that account was mine by the way which you texted to" and he immediately blocked me on whatsapp and on that fake instagram account. I also said "I thought you were tired, I believed you but I saw your real face now"

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It happened just now and it's the end

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He was even saying to me "I won't cheat on you I don't want to hurt you"

[ItsaMeMaik]

Oh im sorry to hear that. ☹️ Unfortunately there isn't much left to say. Even if it doesn't help you, at least you've found out that something is wrong and the fact that he's blocked you straight away is a sign to me that he doesn't want to put any more effort or energy into it 🙈

[Asker]

Do you think he felt embrassed when I caught him?

[ItsaMeMaik]

I bet, because you caught him. It wouldn't mind him if you never found out i guess.

[Asker]

He said he can't text to me because he was tired and I still understood him. I just created that account to see who he follows but I didn't expect him to text like "hi 👋🏻 we know each other?" Like I thought I was the only one for him

[Asker]

When I told him to delete instagram he said he use it for comminucation with his friends, I didn't believe it already but I didn't expect this much from him I gave him my all

[Asker]

He tried to cheat on me in front of my eyes

[ItsaMeMaik]

The fact that he doesn't text you 'because he's too tired' but then replies directly to a stranger shows where his priorities lie, and even if he didn't mean any harm shows that you aren't his priority.

[Asker]

I wish I also asked him in message "are you single?" But maybe he would understand that it was me if I asked that question straight away

[ItsaMeMaik]

Yeah, maybe it would have been a bit obvious

[Asker]

You know what? He also started to turn off his last seen these days especially at nights and then turn it on again in the morning

[ItsaMeMaik]

Oh... thats a big Red flag

[Asker]

When I went back to whatsapp to break up with him I saw his last seen was turned off

[Asker]

Will he regret it? Because all I did was to love him with my all heart and never break up with him whatever the problem is even when he tried to break up

[Asker]

I want him to regret losing me. Would karma work?

[ItsaMeMaik]

Maybe thats the problem. No offense, but maybe he's doing it because he knows he might get away with it

[Asker]

We were in long distance relationship and in our last meet he left his hoodie for me and the ring he bought for me. Should I throw them? But it's so hard to throw

[Asker]

So you think he took my love for granted right?

[Asker]

He is 32 I'm 18

[ItsaMeMaik]

In the end, you know best what you should do and no one should interfere. But I would give him time to think about everything and then see if he regrets it at all, which of course doesn't make it any better. Oh, this behavior with 32 to a 18 year old, thats terrible

[Asker]

Yeah he also started scolding me with cold attitude just because he couldn't find taxi. He answered me even faster when he wanted to talk harshly to me

[Asker]

No he is made out of wood he won't realize anything, he is like a wall

[ItsaMeMaik]

For me its sounds like he's an terrible 'men'

[Asker]

But he also gave me money everytime whenever he came to visit me

[Asker]

He confuses me

[Asker]

If he doesn't love then why would give money or wanting to buy gifts

[ItsaMeMaik]

Sounds like he's just a sugar daddy

[Asker]

On October 12 it's my birthday he wanted to buy gift for me

[Asker]

Can a man give money and not love at the same time?

[Jmmmfi4]

HE'S FULL OF SHIT

[StevenMcGarrett]

Well your suspicions were right. He was blowing you off. Good luck in the future.

[Asker]

Yeah...