I deleted him from snapchat and now I want to add him back. Guys, would you be mad if a girl did that to you?

[Anonymous]

I really liked this guy and saw him as someone I'd really enjoy dating. But he was very inconsistent, sending mixed signals and confusing overall. I decided I wanted to move on.

I deleted him from my snapchat, that way I could move on without being tempted to watch his story every day. Now I feel kinda bad. He's been liking my pictures on Instagram and I think I just misunderstood his signals.

Would it be a bad idea to add him back? He watched my snapchats faithfully so I wonder if he's noticed I deleted him. I don't want him to get upset if I try to add him back.

[AleDeEurope]

I would have moved on from her too, so maybe I'll accept her request, but simply to not look like an asshole, but I'm not really gonna watch her stories or snap her.

[SteamBuns]

Where is MissNowhere?

[Asker]

Do you think he'd be the same way since he always watched them before? He was literally the first person lol. I just don't want him to lose interest if he was even interested to begin with.

[SteamBuns]

Girl, Send him the damn request

[AleDeEurope]

@SteamBuns I don't know xD

@asker I don't know him, so I don't know how he'll act. I think it'll be stupid of him to still have any interest on you given how you "rejected" him...

[dee1790]

Personally, I wouldn't care and probably find it pretty funny... just don't give him the true reason why you deleted him. Make something up.

[Asker]

Thanks! It's only been about 3 days. Should I do it soon? My sister told me I should wait a few months lol

[dee1790]

Do it soon especially if y'all have good chemistry

If you prolong it, he'll realize that you are no longer viewing his snaps and if it were me, i wouldn't bring it up just because I wouldn't want to come off as needy.

[Asker]

You actually make a really good point, thank you! And thanks for actually being helpful. I have one last question. Do you think that'll change anything between us or cause him to lose interest, if he was even interested? Lol.

[dee1790]

Depends on your chemistry. If he was interested, it wouldn't change anything at all.. he would ask why you did it, but respond in a playful way

[Asker]

I added him back and actually made up an excuse. He's a nice guy and I didn't want to give him drama. He told me he was confused about why we weren't friends on there anymore. He then texted me and we've been talking every day since.

[dee1790]

Glad it all worked out :)

[Asker]

Thank you! 😊

[Wonderer89]

God this type of thing is annoying. If you have a problem with them then talk to them instead of the passive aggressive "notice me" deletions from social media.

[Asker]

I didn't do it to be passive aggressive. I decided to move on. I changed my mind.

[truuhly]

I doubt it bothers him coz maybe he doesn't feel the way u do about him

[Superchick123]

Say that you accidentally removed him and add him back.

[Twin2814]

if you want to just add him back. if he asks what happend just tell him. whats he gonna do? if he truly likes you he will make up for it and hopefully stop being confusing

[SteamBuns]

Just add him back... It'll be worse for him if he found out u unfriended him when he can;t see ur snap score...

[Asker]

What if he already knows though? Wouldn't that make him more mad to see I unfriended him and he didn't even know it?

[SteamBuns]

Okay, Continue missing out on opportunities in life Rather than using them.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

I really wouldn't give 3 shits

[Asker]

Thanks lol. My sister told me about guys who have gotten pissed off at her for doing that so I wasn't sure

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

It's snapchat. I would've moved on, but it's fucking snapchat

[cocoapuffs14]

I’m going through the same thing. How long did you wait until you added him back?