Aquarius man distant? How can I fix this?

[Anonymous]

Everything was really good in the beginning. We had sex kind of early on. But we did spend time talking and he asked me questions about my ex. I posted something on my Snapchat about other guys (but it was a joke) literally 10 min later I noticed he deleted me off. The next day I asked if he was mad at me he said no he isn’t in a really friendly way. And everything seemed fine but now it’s like he won’t add me on any social media back after that. I noticed a couple days later he tweeted “out of sight, out of mind”. I don't know if he was talking about me, he did tell me him and his ex broke up over a year ago and he wanted the break so I don’t know if she has anything to do with that or me? I saw him once more after all this happened but he was super tired but told me he wanted to make time for me cause we hadn’t seen each other in a while (we both have very busy lives) but now he has been super distant and I haven’t heard from him! It’s been about a week, I’m trying to just be a friend because I know they like to be friends first. I lost his number because I broke my phone so I wrote him a DM saying “hey friend, lost my phone text me” he replied “ok babe” see that confuses me... sometimes he acts like he likes me then others it’s like I’m a friend and it’s bern over a week and he hasn’t texted me. How can I fix this? I don’t want to contact him again but will if I have too.

[Raghav33]

He has issues about his past relationship.
Definitely is insecured and a bit more sensitive than other guys.
Something u did that reminded him of his last broken relationship, so to avoid the insecurity he started avoiding you.
Phone calls and text aren't going to work, give him a surprise visit, spend the day (or couple hours) if possible, and clearly ask him what went wrong. He won't open up easily, as ur the reason he is insecured.(Typical sensitive guys behaviour).
All im sayin if u want to make this work ull have to work hard on this.
If he opens up, then it fine and u both can move on, but if he still doesn't, there's nothin u can do so better let him go, as u have done the best u can.
Hope this helps.

[Cammy137]

You could start by googling the Barnum Effect and stop viewing people's month of birth as some crazy insight into a person

[UltimateGohan]

Who still believes in these weird signs?

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Oh honey, you need to ditch that loser and get yourself a Capricorn. Everybody knows that's where the real action is.

[ciaran672]

Sounds like it's a no from him if I'm honest