I have a crush on her for years and we are very good friends. Recently we started meeting even more, we get along very well and spent a lot of time together. But ofc there's a problem... She told me multiple times how she likes me as a friend and jokes about how ridiculous it would be if we would start dating. Its probably becouse im 5'4 scrawny shy guy while she is 6'2 volleyball player, most fit girl i know. She even helps me with my assignments for school couse she's clearly smarter than me... What can i do? How Can i impress her without destroying our friendship?
No guarantee that this will work, but she's able to be her true self with you because she isn't interested in you romantically/sexually now. That means you are her avenue to being herself. Show love and support to her when she needs it. Treat her like you would your sister when she needed comfort, if you don't have one then use yourself as a reference for how to comfort her. She'll realize that you are a constant in her life and she will live you for it. That love can change to romantic, and that is the only way she might date you.
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You have to find your inner "MAN"... and expose that. Start being the man, and she will see you as a potential. Forget about the height difference, women don't go by that, they go by their feelings.
So your job is to stimulate her "woman" feelings.
Meditate on that. If I have to spoon feed you, then you won't get it done.
Step one... stop feminizing and lowering yourself.
If she's joking like that, then she's available imho.
It's a little awkward if she's placed you firmly in friend zone this way. You *could* try taking up a sport or something she would find impressive because you share a common interest, but if you've known eo for years there's honestly not much she doesn't know about you...
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I think you should just focus on being friends. being friends with her will probably get some other women interested in you.
You got "Friend Zoned" which means u have to move on. She will never like you. The more you try to change her mind. The more she will reject you. It's best to Ignore her and go after girls who are attracted to you. Girls dont wanna be chased. They wanna do the chasing.
Flex your muscles in public. Let it be known within earshot what an irresistible fuckboy you are. Verbally espouse with an hourly recount of how many asses you kick. Bounce your head to rap songs while occasionally yelling out a reference to "bitches." I've seen all of these work wonders. Best of luck to you, Jedi.😎
Wanting to impress her demonstrates you see her as above you. That is already a fail. Building attraction is the way to go about this. But that begins with knowing your worth.
Do something you know she likes or thinks is cool. Whatever captures her interests. You know her better than we do
How is your standing cunnilingual skills? Seriously, I think I would have to not pursue this. She's already said your friend zoned multiple times.
do not waste your energy and time for less possibilities. If a girl likes you it is very easy to be in a relationship. I have not seen good things to try for tough relations situations
Dude you're friendzoned for life. She even told you in as many words. If you don't like it stop hanging with her. There are other girls, some of them might fancy you.
Number 1 rule, don’t impress because impressing doesn’t impress.
Don’t cheat on her but act like you did, they love toxic scenarios for them to talk about to their friends
find out what's she into and learn about it. Impress her with your knowledge of it
Act your age and stop saying crush would be a good start.
Why would you want a girl so much bigger than you? She’s basically going to be the man.
She’s already said what she said
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