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My boyfriend is mamas boy & it’s been giving me depression. She has big house they bought & he has his own bedroom plus living room. His dad moved to another state to retire. So he is helping pay moms rent & bills & no plan to move out never. I live alone in a studio 10 min away from him. I feel sick at thought I’ll be alone forver til I’m old & not have partner take care of me or share life with me , he’ll just be with mommy forever. On each date he says oh I need do this errand for my mom after. It turns me off. All my cousins and brother ditched their mom & all live with girlfriend or wife. My brother only cares of his girlfriend now wife and doesn’t fucking care of my mom. He takes care of wife’s family only. I’m sad y my boyfriend can’t be like my brother be into with me & not his mom? And it’s easy for girls say get new boyfriend. No guy chases me. They only like women with fake surgery butt. I feel stuck with him I’m already too deep in this relationship. I feel god cursed me & gives all girls perfect guy and me momas boy live alone forever empty in my studio.

I feel my relationship/communication is not going well with my boyfriend. Like it’s not evolving as I hoped it would be. It feels like he is becoming more and more distant and I’m just the back burner in his life.

I have confronted with my mom looking for relationship advice. That she told me: “Honey, all men are like this. He is out there living his life and you need to give him his space. Men say they want ‘love and attention’. But once a girl gives it to him. He doesn’t want it anymore. You need to focus on you and glow and don’t worry about him. He’ll come around whenever he feels like it, and I know it hurts. Believe me, I know.”

I’m 23 living w/ my mom. Which we kinda like roommates now. Honestly though I don’t want her in my life anymore. She has hurt me to the point I just really dislike her. We split bills but since 2020 she has quit jobs left and right leaving me to pay majority of the bills often. Not that I judged her for quitting but she’d complain about bills when I was the only that didn’t quit a job. On top of that she has accused me of not being loyal to her and accused me of taking her things. She threatened to call the police on me if I didn’t find her keys. She literally flipped my room upside down looking for her keys, just for her keys to be where she said she already looked.

she goes into my room when I’m at work, busting in my room all kinds of early morning while I’m sleep. I know you guys will say just move out. Well I’m planning on it but I pay all the bills alone our rent is over $1000 and utilities, food, phone bill, transportation. I only get paid bi weekly and only get a $1000 from working 80 hrs every two weeks.

no matter what I push how I feel away and stay to help but she has burned a bridge with me that can no longer be built. I’m not
Angel and I’ve apologized for all my wrong doing but the disrespect and stress I go through is ridiculous. Makes me want to end my life just to get away from her, and the bills. I had a miscarriage because of her and my depression has been swallowing me whole.

im completely fucked up emotionally and she only cares about what people done to her forget how she treats me. She has this sense of entitlement and it’s killing me! I can’t take it! I’m losing my mind living with her and I’m trying to not spazz out and go off and say fuck her and whatever happens with bills!