POLL- IS IT DEAL BREAKER IF A GUY won't LIVE WITH YOU AND LIVES WITH MOM? HOW CAN I SETTLE DOWN AT AGE 25?

[Sugar100]

i need help. I desire have my own children & live with a partner. My boyfriend & I just date weekly but that’s it. He’s 30 but I can’t meet his family, he has to pay moms bills & rent. It’s not fair as everyone in my family they prefer take care of girlfriend & all move in with boyfriend or girlfriend fast. His sister has children living with boyfriend in their moms house. She isn’t married but her boyfriend got to meet her family so y boyfriend can't show me to his family & im apart of the family too?😔he avoid take pics with me on all dates & pretends be single prob tells everyone holidays he have no girlfriend. I shud be happy celebrating holidays at bfs families home. Not alone. She is living my dream life having boyfriend meet her family and now have kids live together even tho they live for now in her moms house. 😔I’m alone depresed empty. I feel I have it all but I don’t have partner in my life planning move with me or bringing me to live at his parents home, meeting his mom. My future is be alone no baby nothing? 😔I’m not a party girl so don’t tell me party til I’m 30-40. I don’t hear any girl saying thier boyfriend lives with mom & she lives alone. I want a guy live alone so we can move together have baby meet families like a normal couple. He says he has his own life, I don’t hear my brother telling that to his girlfriend. Instead he’s following her & planning life together.

[TonyV]

I think you need therapy, you shouldn't be depressed to be alone. Sounds like all your happiness is tied to this guy, and that's not a healthy relationship, you should never need someone that much.

Why would you want kids at 25?

If you and him have such different life plans why do you clinge to him? Why are you trying to change him into something he isn't? Just date a guy that wants what you want.

Maybe he don't have room for you to live in his house, it sounds full, so what you gonna force him to leave his mom high and dry to run away with you? Sorry family comes first.
Plus you've already told us you won't ask to meet his parents cause your family says he should offer. You ever think maybe he tells you about his parents to see if you're interested in meeting them? And the problem is that you never reply "I'd love to meet them"

[Sugar100]

My brother doesn’t take care of my mom he left fast with girlfriend and cares about gfs family and not his own mom.

[Sugar100]

I see men put partner first not thier family. All men leave family to be with a girl.

[Sugar100]

His ssiter lives in a studio with boyfriend , they have a studio room in their home with separate entrance. 😞 and me I’m stupid living alone in a studio rather than living like them with a boyfriend sharing life with his fmaily. Y that guy don’t live alone like me in a studio and just visit girlfriend one time a week? Y he gets to meet their parents and them give them a studio to live attached to their home? 😞

[Sugar100]

I don’t want kids til age 30 or 40.
My step sisters got pregnant at age 22, I’m not a party girl but I want my own family it’s my dream 25 is good age I feel settled down in life. Only girls that aren’t serious are single for long time til age 35 party not serious to settle down.

[TonyV]

No all men do not leave family to chase a girlfriend, and girlfriends don't come first.
I don't know why you are jealous of his sisters boyfriend, I don't knownwhy you keep wanting him to act like your brother, sounds like you have a brother kink.

All you're doing is copying people and saying "I want what they have"

[TonyV]

You can settle down without having kids right away.

[Sugar100]

My dream is to have my own family. Why u get angry with that?

[Sugar100]

I want what they have is it’s my dream for many years. It don’t come true I’m just alone , it’s hard for a serious women to be alone when she can instead begin start her own family live with a boyfriend share life together.

[TonyV]

I'm not angry, you won't listen tho.

He won't leave home but him loving his family is a dealbreaker to you so why don't you just break up with him?

Your dream and his plan don't line up so why are you trying to force it?

You have 2 options be alone most time or try to move in with his family

[Sugar100]

I don't know his mom how I’ll move in if he don’t want me be apart of his family 😔 all girls say it’s deal breaker for a guy live with mom.

[TonyV]

Then break up with him

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, he's a loser. Get a boyfriend that will give you what you want.

[Sugar100]

Y he wants forever live with his mom? I don’t see any guy celebrating holidays alone at moms house with ssiter and boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

all my fmaily memebers r next to a girl they bring girl to his family chritmas and vise Versa. Y he preorder live with mom than me? If all guys live with girl they run and happy live with girl daily?

[Sugar100]

Y he don’t want me meet his mom? 😔 y he don’t want show me say I’m his girlfriend y he like telling family he’s single chritmas Thanksgiving? Celebrate without me

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, very bizarre. I guess he's just a momma's boy.

[Guy13]

Does seem like he doesn’t care…

[Guy13]

That’s weak…are you sure you want to have a baby with a 30 year old guy who lives with MOMMA⁉️

[Guy13]

Mom’s life is more important than taking care of you… Yoh thjnk he is taking advantage of both of you❓ He lives off women❓

[Sugar100]

I never hear a guy taking care of their mom. My brother lives with wife and he only cares of wife and doesn’t help my mom at all

[Sugar100]

The thing is I need help where I find guy that wants a guy and that lives alone and not with mom? A guy that wants move in with me? Where I need help

[Sugar100]

At all stores men r next to girl and baby. So that’s not option.

[slatyb]

Dump him and date an adult.

[Reijen]

Dump him.

[Sugar100]

Where do I find a guy that wants a guy and meet his mom? I ask this million times everyone is ignoring tell me where u get a boyfriend

[Reijen]

Can't.
Can only say this guy isn't worth your time, if you have goals he can't meet.

[Sugar100]

I can’t stop crying cuz I love him I feel safe with him like my partner I’m shaking rn 😓I don’t love any guy

[Reijen]

Then guess you're stuck with him.

[Sugar100]

I don’t find never new guy that wants girlfriend. All guys at store r Next to girl have baby too.