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So the girl I was having sex with moved in with her boyfriend and like a moron sent her man a message that was meant for more. She didn't have my phone number (we spoke 100% over a fake facebook account I have) so unless she wants to go and tell him who I am, he has no way to find out. NOW, he's thrown her out of his apartment even though she already broke lease on her old place so she's with her sister and brother-in-law. She's trying to start a relationship with me and move in even though I've made it CRYSTAL clear that I don't get into official relationships with cheaters. Now she's playing the victim game, saying men are all dogs, that I used her for sex and all this other bullshit. We're off of class for this week since it's a Wednesday class and yesterday was veterans day - but she's threatening to "embarrass me" next week in class if I cut her off completely.

What's some advice incase she tries to #metoo me? We're still team partners on a school project that's not going to be complete until December. Hit-and-run sex is NOT rape, so I have no idea what she's planning.

If you are not in a committed/monogamous/exclusive relationship, by definition, you should feel free to date other partners. However, there are two problems that may arise in this situation.

1. YOU may not feel comfortable with dating two people at the same time. If you are just getting to know your partners, you may be challenged. You are on a date and you say something about her hometown of Atlanta but this is the one from Savannah. Or you forgot that this is the one who hates Indian food and that's where you are planning on going for dinner tonight.

If you haven't had a conversation about "we're not exclusive so I'm also dating someone else," then you may feel guilty about dating someone else.

2. Even though you have not explicitly promised exclusiveness, maybe THEY have that expectation. . . because they never date more than one person at the same time. When they learn about your other interest, they may feel terribly hurt and disappointed, even though you have done nothing wrong.

If either relationship does become sexual without the exclusive promise, then the problems really ratchet up. I was in that position when I was 26 years old and I promised to never get myself into that position again.

Are you comfortable dating more than one person at the same time?