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Basically, we were in a club-type place (I am not a fan of clubbing, but whatever). When we were about to go and queuing at the wardrobe, this drunk dude randomly appears out of nowhere, slaps my ass, and leaves. My boyfriend was holding my hand all along, didn't notice shit and when I told him, horrified, he did look upset but well at that moment it was a bit too late to go after the dude, I didn't even see his face. I felt pretty shocked about him not noticing anything, and it didn't seem like it bothered him that much, he got over him pretty quickly. I agree, logically speaking there was nothing left to do since the guy could not be spotted anymore, but wow I expected him to be bothered by that for a longer time. Also, he's not jealous at all, ever, and it's not like I'm an unattractive woman. I just don't get it.

Towards late June (couple months after her 13th b-day) her parents and I learned that her classmates have been giving her a hard time since Oct of 2014 and she kept this a secret. I noticed that she hardly ever go out with anyone, except with this girl that I now don't trust after learning what happened during this whole school year. I read her journal.

A girl in her school (shorter and lighter than her) named Dania that has been making her miserable for many months. Though others bothered her, that girl was/is her main tormentor. Two months later Dania came with her other friends and issued her an apology and stated how they can be friends. The following week, she told her that they were never friends and how it was just pretending.

Dania was looking for a fight with my cousin from the beginning. My cousin can own that girl and even some guys too (she's a good fighter) but she doesn't like hurting others. However, in March others were pushing Dania towards my cousin and the girl kept mocking and mildly shoving my cousin. My cousin at one point had enough and retaliated by pushing her and punching her on the shoulder. The girl then proceeded to slapping her before leaving. My cousin went to the office but both of them were going to get suspended.

Dania was pleading with her to please forget it. Anyway my cousin ended up crying too (she's always been a mainly A student who never ever got in trouble) and supposely the girl then apologized to her. They both shake hands afterwards and ever since, the girl has gotten friendly with my cousin. Though, she gave my cousin a false number when they exchanged numbers. My cousin confronted her about it the next day and the girl supposely said it was an error and this time gave her the real number.

I'm I right in not trusting that girl? I think the girl is acting friendly because she's trying to avoid getting in trouble base on how emotional she got when nearly getting suspended. I don't think that's real remorse.

We were discussing about how some arguments in a relationship can escalate and how we all are only humans that can react. I can this bs. You can still solve an argument with your words and if it's going nowhere, then there is nothing wrong with either walking out or maybe needing some time alone in your room.

She thinks I'm exaggerating with my attitude by saying I would report a potential boyfriend or husband for even slapping me in the hand or yanking my hair during an argument. I would even reconsider the relationship (or marriage) if he even got in my face in a scary manner. Then she was surprised when I added that I would still proceed with a divorce if married immediately on that same day. If he wants to get upset well how about going to the gym or maybe at most hitting a wall? That's what alternatives and walls are there for if you're so frustrated to the point of wanting to get physical.

I have a complete black-white policy on this. I treat this the same as if a guy cheated on me or even tried to by setting up a date behind my back. It would be over. There would be no apologies accepted at all. I don't even care for gifts and not into teddy bears at this point so it would be a ''lol'' if he even tried that.

The only negative factor is you might get punched, pushed, slapped, etc by those people. For instance if the prank consisted in pretending to sneeze (along with wetting them with your sneeze.. fake off course) in front of others, asking people (even other guys too) if they want to be your valentine, etc.