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I like this guy from college, we have hit it off well, we are good friends and we have known eah other for 5 months.
He is an introvert, very nerdy, gamer geeky type, while I find him attractive (like a 8-10), people look at him and are like "no" (2-3)
He only close to about 3 girls, one is me, one os a friend, and the other is a crush that brother-zoned him and is dating her own boyfriend right now.
People think I can do better (8-10 by most)
Some facts:
-He knows I like him.
-We still flirt (He only flirts with me).
-He constantly glances and looks at me for a reaction to things like his jokes, but especially if he is playing a sport.
-I am the first girl to like him, ever.
-He is very serious in what he looks for in a relationship (like best friends type of thing, he won't just date you after one inital conversation or based on your looks)
-He is afraid of loosing me as a friend if we date (this is from context clues from a talk we had, he told me about how friends turned s/o turned to never speaking again)
-He dosen't want me to change.
-We have long talks, like 5-10 hour talks, all nighters.
-He gets jealous/ curious whenever I bring up a guy, and will have a sigh/look of relief when I say were not dating.
-When I told him this summer about how I stayed friends with all my crushes (i. e not letting my feelings over whelm a good friendship) he seems a lot more curious/ interested in me.
-He dosen't talk nearly as much to his crush anymore, and while we don't talk to much because of ur schedules, he will help me whenever I call.
-He is not the type to take initiative if he knows that the negative outcomes outweight the positives.

So summer is almost over and he is about to come back down for college, we have what I like to think are dates, set up (we choose some movie nights, just the two of us, disneyland, etc.)

When I told him I liked him, he said he wanted to stay just friends, but these things tell me he changed his mind, did he?
And if he did, should I say yes?

I have a crush, and I told him about it, we are pretty good friends, known each other for about 5 months, he is extremely serious when it comes to relationships, like no "hit it and quit it" and when he gets into a relationship he wants it to be special and long lasting, I personally am on the same page so we both have never dated before.
I cannot tell if he likes me or not, while he told me in a 8 hour talk, he told me he can't see anything above friendship, mainly because he dosen't know me that well, he is one of those guys that takes them like years to develop a crush because they want to get to know someone, and even more time to make a move.
We have ton in common, he even told me he was surprised since no girl has ever liked him before, he currently says he likes someone else (I asked, he didn't volunteer) but when he said yes, he was what it seemed like iffy about his own feelings, and he saw my expression change, he instantly started to change it, saying while he can see him dating her, but he sees it as a bro/sis relationship, mainly because of her, she was the first girl that he opened up to and has know for a few years that is why he feels a closeness to her, is what he told me.
He is a major introvert, is very honest and since I have only known him for like 5 months, I don't know if I should just keep hope alive and get to know him on a more intimate level (like the talk) rather then our on the surface friendship and see where it goes, since he already knows I like him.
He has told me he would hate to loose me as a friend and it took him a while to talk to me just to make sure he didn't loose me as a friend... he said he has seen to many friends get into relationships, just to break up and never speak again (we're in collage) The thing is he still stares, we still talk and flirt, he gets jealous of other guys when I give them more attention then him... does he like me and is he just scared try us out? Give it time? Or friendzoned?