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So, I just started working this new job and there is this guy I think is pretty dope. He's cute, funny and kinda weird like me. We get along and talk but I know that he just sees me as a friend. I know that I'm not his type because honestly I'm not anyone's type. I don't really have any ugly features but I'm not pretty. I mean I've tried to wear a little make up now and then but it never really makes a difference in the way I look. And in order for me to actually have any results that I might actually like I'd have to basically change my whole appearance. Which is not something I want to do. When someone steps to me I want them to do it because they see me as I am. I don't wear make up mostly because I'm hella lazy (I can't do a wing tip to save my life) I don't wanna go through all that shit that I be seeing girls go through with all the concealer, foundation eye liner and whatever else they be using, but also because I don't wanna hide or change myself to be with someone. Like I said I've realized that I'm not really anyone's type. And what I mean by that is that I've always been the best friend thats a girl and the people that do become interested in me are just plain weirdos. Some would say that I'm being picky but I don't think I am. Which brings me back to the guy I work with. I've always been attracted to guys are sort of out my league. Well muscled and tall and all that jazz. Imagine that with a small chubby girl with small eyes and a wide nose and u would say bad combo too. A lot of people would say I'm being too hard in myself but I'm just being a realist and speaking from experience. Men tend to look in the other direction when it come to me, and i don't know why. because I've seen women who are fatter than me or even uglier than me who significant others. So why is it so hard for me to want to be with someone and for them to want to be with me in return. Perhaps my standards are too high I don't know. Anyway my question is what do u guys think I should do about the work cutie?

Guy 1 - Gerry

When I was with him on Valentine's Day I said to him, "Give is a kiss for Valentine's Day" and he said to me, "There'll be many more to come, many more". When I was leaving, he said to me, "I'll see you soon honey". We were on holiday with a group of people and I gave someone we both know a kiss on his cheek and I gave him a hug. Gerry then said to the other man, "I'm jealous now of you" so I turned to Gerry and I said to him, "You know I love you Gerry" and Gerry said to me, "I know you do".

Guy 2 - Joe

I was with Joe a week ago. I met him at a gig and he stared at me when I was beside him and then he turned away a minute later. Just after this, I walked past him and I was looking into another room and then when I turned back round in his direction, he was staring at me. We stared at each other for a minute and then he looked at the floor, he raised his eyebrows and then he drank his bottle of beer. Shortly after this, he had his back to me as he was lifting something up. I went over and I tapped him on his back, he turned round to me and he stared at me again and he blinked a few times and then he smiled at me

Which man likes me the most between these two men? Do either of these two men fancy me?