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And if so, why? Like how many of you guys out there feel that sleeping around is dishonorable? Or getting hammered every weekend is straight up childish behavior? I see too many women getting hammered and having WAAAAAY more sex than the men they try to criticize. And there are a lot of women out there that are pro choice which shows they aren't willing to accept the consequences of sleeping around. Ladies DO NOT get this twisted I am not saying ALL WOMEN nor am I saying that there aren't deadbeat men. But what I am saying is that I feel men have to held to a different standard in society to be seen as noble. I've upheld my integrity and treated classless women the way I was raised to. But they don't respect it, they laugh or ignore me.

Note these women are NOT the women I would even dream of touching. But all through my life I've seen far, far more women acting like debased animals and children then men. I've hung around a lot of men that carried themselves with integrity. But the majority of women I met were the exact opposite and many would say they don't even care about honor, chivalry and all that. But then complain when a player uses them like a piece of garbage. Why do women demand respect when they don't show they can even respect themselves, their communities, their families, their neighbors? Saying Hi/Bye to people isn't being respectful by the way. Your actions are what prove your worth.

Last side note: I am NOT saying men are not without their faults, they have plenty. But the low class trash women are the ones speaking for women these days and ladies aren't putting them in check. There's a reason why so many men have lost respect for women. Ladies, please restore face because you ARE better than this and you know it's true. Lots of you out there with good hearts and good intentions, put those things into action and be an example to the young girls out there who lacked good role models. I DO NOT hate women, I want better for all!

We went out for 2 months. She really like me because she would drive 2 hours to see me whenever I wanted her to on the weekends, even though she’s in college.

She started playing games, so I called her out to set some boundaries. It started a brief argument, and a few days later I tried to clean it up a bit. Soon after she ghosted me. The last thing I said was “if you’re down to keep things going when we can then so am I. You gotta admit, it’s always a good time” that was almost 2 weeks ago.

I think the reason she started playing games is because she thought I was playing her and not taking her seriously (never called her, never asked if she got home safe, never sent good morning texts, never drove to her, never mentioned a relationship) I was a straight up asshole and took her for granted. I wanted a relationship, but I wanted to wait just to see how college would go, so I hid all my feelings from her. It’s been 2 weeks since hearing from her. Should I send her this:

“I know things are long gone, but I still wanna say that I hate how shitty I treated you the whole time. There’s a lot I wish I did”

I’d like to see her again, but I know that’ll never happened because she thinks I was playing her and wasting her time and money for 2 months, which was never my intentions.

This girl (20) would drive 2 hours to see me (25) every weekend for 2 months, so she really liked me. It was always a really good time. We bonded right away and went on really fun/sexy adventures (stripping her naked and eating her ass on the beach) and a few dates. But I didn’t treat her like a girlfriend. I never called her, asked if she got home safe, snapchatted her, sent good morning texts, no relationship talk, but we texted everyday. It now feels like I was leading her on, even though she drove 2 hours to see me. Playing her was never my intention because I liked her too.

She recently started playing games so I called her out, she got mad, a brief argument happened, a few days later I kinda tried to make up for it, shortly later I was ghosted after saying “if you’re down to keep things going then so am I. You gotta admit it’s always a good time.

It’s been two weeks since the argument and a week since she ghosted me. Should I send her “I get it. There’s a lot of things I wish I did but it’s in the past. Our shenanigans were wild. Hopefully you find someone who isn’t two hours away”

If not, what else should I say?