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Spent time at lake with longtime male friend recently.. previous history of intimacy but not for a few years. After we got settled.. he offered to give me a massage.. (I was in a bikini.. trip was his idea).. he’d rubbed my neck.. shoulders.. entire back and legs. I’d recently put on some weight and I joked that it went to my butt and he said I could tell and smacked it a couple times. Before he’d only ever been like that in private.. so since this was public.. was curious if this sign of pda.. was intended to be flirty.. territorial.. or something else? We went in the water for a little bit and he did splash me a couple times. Just curious as being public along this line is new for him. Being that it’s been awhile since we’ve been intimate.. along with a history of being weird when other guys were nice to me during the time we were intimate and since then.. wanting to make sure I didn’t misread this visit.. as it came across at the very least as flirty.. opinions appreciated..

Longtime guy friend.. brief intimacy a few years ago. He’d act weird when other guys were nice to me before he moved and a few times since then. He’s normally casual about relationships. Have visited a few times since he moved. Most recent visit he invited me to the lake and said bring my bikini. He sprayed lotion on my back.. rubbed my shoulders, neck/back and legs. He smacked my butt a couple times when I’d mentioned that the weight had gained has recently went there.. he said I know and smacked it. Weird part is that he said he liked friends with benefits but acting weird when other guys were nice to me didn’t make sense.. especially since he’s moved. The lake visit was nice but did leave me confused. It’s the first time he’d done anything public like that. Right after he moved he said we’re friends, I don’t know when I’ll see you.. and “if the benefits happen”.. I’m just hoping I didn’t misread the lake visit as flirt. When we were in the water he did splash me a couple times. Opinions appreciated 🙂

Long time friend.. period of intimacy a few years ago.. he has a history of being casual about relationships but would act weird when others were nice to me.. before and after he moved. Spent time recently at the lake and he told me to bring my bikini.. he rubbed my neck.. back.. legs and smacked my butt a couple times. When we were in the water he even splashed me a couple times.. this was new because public displays like that were not the usual. Just curious.. from guy standpoint: can intimacy take place for 6 months without some kind of eelinds? Not necessarily love but in general? Opinions helpful.. from girls too of course.. just curious from guys especially..

Longtime friend offered to give me a massage while at the lake since I needed lotion on my back. He rubbed my neck.. back and legs.
History of intimacy a few years ago. Still flirts sometimes but never done public affection before so wondering if the massage was a flirty gesture or a friendly gesture. Opinions appreciated

Spent time at the lake a few weeks ago with a long time male friend. We have a history of intimacy but it’s been almost 3 years. When we were in the water.. I noticed he playfully splashed me a couple times.. I thought it was cute.. was curious if that kinda stuff is intended as flirt in a way?
Hed invited me to the lake.. told me to bring my bikini and did rub lotion on my back and legs.. and smacked my butt a couple times. That part was out of the norm for him (in public).. but was curious about the water. Even thought we’ve not been “together” in 3 years.. there’ve been times since then that he’s gotten weird when another guy happens to be nice to me.. especially if it’s someone he knows. That happened both before he moved and a few times since. Opinions definitely appreciated

This girl and I have been friends for 9 years. We area both 21 and live at home. She knows my entire family. They have mixed opinions on her especially my parents. My parents are never mean to her though, and try to help her if she needs it. We have got in 3 major blowouts in the past, which resulted in us not talking to each other for several months at a time and blocking/changing numbers. Anyways, I try to hang out with my friend at least once a week but she currently does not have a job and her parents stopped giving her money so I’m having to pay for whatever we do that’s why I limit it to once a week unless she wants to take walks which are free. Recently, I started talking to a guy on a dating app and we hung out a bunch and I’m talking to him everyday and call him my boyfriend, I’ve known him for a month. I think my friend is jealous. She’s a pretty blonde girl and guys stare at her in public but she gives them Death looks and then they approach me. I decline. My friend wanted to go to a club tomorrow night but it’s in a bad part of town so I said no. I suggested going to the derby with my aunt and boyfriend and she yelled at me because she knows I have a family reunion on Saturday so I’ll see my aunt then and I care about my boyfriend more than her and she tried to call me but I had to end the call to talk to my boyfriend and she’s like I’m glad our 9 year friendship means nothing to you and I need to get my priorities right and I’m rude af. She’s also been persistent texting me but I was on a date earlier and she went off on me. I told her to try the dating apps and she doesn’t have any luck because she says all guys want is a quick lay or they stop talking to her and yadda yadda. She wants to go to this bar tomorrow night (we were supposed to go to the club) and I said I will see because I plan on going to the derby and she flipped out. And anytime I text or call my boyfriend when she’s around she gets all bitchy towards me and I have to walk away.