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I’m a 21 year old virgin, never had a relationship, a date or kissed. Also I’m far from ugly.

I don’t care now. But I’m embarrassed for the future as I know things won’t change until maybe 25-30.

I currently studying in a foreign country. I speak the language, but study with English speaking people. I don’t know any pretty girls. Also don’t have any local friends. I don’t think I can get a girlfriend here.

I’m just on my own.

So over the holiday my mother and I were talking and dating came up. I'm a virgin who never dated and not concerned about it right now because I'm focusing on myself. Since this was a private conversation and I'm close to my mother, I came out and told her that I only want to date another virgin and I'm willing to wait until marriage. She didn't go crazy or anything, but she tried to convince me otherwise, asked me even if she only had sex 1 time before you'd still wouldn't date her, and I said no I wouldn't. We ended up debating back and forth and eventually I just said "I chose to save myself for someone special and I just ask for the same in return", but what she said next very much insulted me. She said "well a woman only has sex when she's in love, and sometimes her feelings were't right, and you should be more considerate and accept it." It sounded like she was telling me to just give myself away regardless of what I want. Just give myself to whoever like a charity food stamp. I know she didn't mean it and was trying to help, but I couldn't help but to feel offended. I didn't bring this up because I still respect my mother, but this is what her dating and sex life was.

She lost her virginity at 13.
Dated a guy in his mid 20's when she was 15.
Got pregnant by said guy and had my sister at 16 then my brother at 21.
We still don't know who my biological father is because she was hooking up with random guys while living at some old guy's house, and that old guy might even be my father because she was sleeping with him too.
She's been married 3 times and didn't have children with any of the men she married.

Both my older brother and sister had their first child at 17. My sister is an overweight single mother in her mid 30s and my brother in being divorced for cheating on his wife and is running off with a girl he already got pregnant, and his child support looks like a shopping list.

If I'm going to get into a relationship, I want something that's special.

I'm turning 21 soon and have decided to spend the next 5 or 6 years of my life on improving myself, improving my physical and mental health, gaining experience, and focusing on my entrepreneurial career, so I'm not going to be dating (I never even been on a date anyways). I'm saving dating until I'm a bit older and when I do I would prefer women in their early 20s because I only want to date virgin because I'm a virgin too want to have that amount of secrecy in my relationship and virgin women are mostly in their early 20s and I'm willing to wait until marriage, and she would still remain very fertile if we start having children. I also heard that women most prefer older men anyways, don't know how true that is but wouldn't be surprised if it is.

The man and woman in the photo above are in their 60s by the way

Right now I'm 20 soon turning 21. At this age and the rest of my 20s at least I'm basically at my prime, my testosterone, physical feats, looks, ability to fuck (even though I'm a virgin), etc. and I want to try my best to stay this way for the rest of my life, I want to be in my 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s, and if I make it past my 100s, I still want to be able to run, jump, fight, make gains, play with my future grand kids and fuck my future wife, and with the science, technology, supplements and what not we have today and the future I think it's more than possible.
But that mostly depends on the lifestyle you live while you're young, not the lifestyle you live when you do get older, it depends on the lifestyle you live beforehand, Consistency is the key to success. I may be very young, but one of my biggest fears is getting older and ending up fat, unattractive, out of shape, weak, having an erectile dysfunction, etc.