Search Results: finding decent guys

I just can’t get over how unlucky I am in love. I’m in my mid twenties and can’t find a man that I’d want to date. I’ve tried the dating apps on and off for years and they’ve been a nightmare. I’ve vowed to quit using them until COVID isn’t as much of a concern. I just feel like every remotely attractive or cute woman can find a guy and have tons of them wrapped around their fingers. I’m not saying I’m a 10 but I’m told I’m cute. I lost a lot of weight and even thinner, men don’t like me. I only attract men that are unattractive with decent personalities, attractive with shitty personalities or attractive but short. Short as in my height or only an inch taller. Lol I’m not that tall so that’s just unacceptable for me. What is so wrong with me? The last guy I saw was not good looking but he attracted good looking women, yes he had a good sense of humor but so do I. It’s so unfair, the universe is out to get me.

Obviously if we open our legs, practically all (unless he's gay, doesn't want to cheat on his girl or a religious fanatic) would say yes. However, if we want a decent one that wants kids and marriage (and won't ever cheat) then the numbers reduce sooo much.

The interesting part is I've also heard a couple heartbreaking stories of decent ones that got cheated on, the woman used him for money or she fooled him into raising her lover's (affair partner) child for years. Prior to that, they believed in love but eventually lost hope.

Overall would you say it's harder for us to find a good man than guys finding the right girl?