Guys, do women ever GENUINELY have a hard time finding a partner?

[MCheetah]

I won't make this a Male-only question, but I don't want women to give bullsh*t responses either.

I'm talking about women who GENUINELY try to find a normal, decent partner (NOT literal f*cking perfection who has 50,000 other women also competing for his attention). I'm not talking about "waiting for "Mr. Right." I'm not talking about "waiting for Mr. Perfect." I'm not talking about "six foot four, blonde hair, blue eyes, chiseled abs, 24 year old multi-millioniare family man who only has eyes for your mediocre-ass and worships the ground you walk on, yet also super confident everywhere else."

I'm asking, do women, not-by-choice, ever GENUINELY get lonely and just want a decent, loving, imperfect man? For true romance or even just sex.

I'm not saying they need to be Femcels or anything; just girls realistically trying to find one halfway decent guy who'll show love and support for them, using realistic expectations for men, and always failing at it.

Again, not any of the "HE NEEDS TO BE ALMOST EVERYTHING I WANT AND DREAM OF" bullsh*t either. Because I've literally never met a woman before who wasn't single by choice due to holding out for her personal idea of the perfect man. I almost envy women's immunity to ever get lonely (truly lonely), cause we all know some of us men certainly get pretty lonely at times.

So, I'm going to submit this now. Hope I don't regret it.

[JDavid25]

Not really.. Or at least some guy interested in them.. I've seen normal decent looking women talk about how "they have people interested in them, but they are not interested in anybody" and I just roll my eyes.. LOL.. Some men have said the same thing too, but it's more common in women..

[JDavid25]

Thanks for MHO bro...

[dudeinohio]

I think most women will have no problem finding a partner. Most women who are alone are alone by choice. As in all generalizations like this, there are some exceptions, though.

[Jjpayne]

I do have trouble simply finding any date at all, not simply a partner. I invested in an expensive dating site recently, you would think I'd be able to start messaging people and connecting with them... I send them sweet good messages to your mailbox double checked by a girl, and it shows they have been on there daily. Do you think I get a response?
This is why I need speed dating because it prevents people from getting too picky and focuses on getting to know the person first and going from there. If you like the person you get to know them rather than find the best possible candidate.

[Jjpayne]

It may not be this way but it sure feels like it

[Lliam]

I don't know any woman who is holding out for the kind of perfect male you described.

I saw a question by a very attractive, young, mixed race woman recently here on GAG. She was wondering if she was un-flirtable because nobody had ever flirted with her.

I've heard from quite a few other perfectly attractive, normal girls who have similar problems. So maybe a lot of guys these days have unrealistic standards for women, too. But I think most men and women have reasonable standards and are seeking relationships with nice people. That was true when I was dating and I doubt is things have changed much. Think of all the people in the world.

[hahahmm]

Never believe everything anyone says unless they have a track record of telling the truth and when it comes to what they say about themselves, they must have a track record of understanding themselves. Few people today should be listened to.

[pleasestopthis]

Of course, ugly woman have it rough, even worse than ugly guys, because generally speaking men care more about their partner's physical attractiveness.

[Anonymous]

Yes, particularly women who are obese and/or black. (Sorry black women, you definitely get the short end of the stick in the multicultural dating scene; I really do feel bad for you on this one.)