Why can all my friends find decent boyfriends but I can't?

[Anonymous]

All my friends are so lucky when it comes to finding boyfriends whilst me on the otherhand i always attract terrible men. My last boyfriend turned out to be a drug dealer.

I've been signed with a worldwide modeling agency since i was 14 years old so it can't be that im ugly or i wouldn't have a job. For example one of my friends is dating a award winning garden designer and he treats her like a queen, yet she's slightly over weight, comes from a poor background, has spots and is 5ft. So obviously it has nothing to do with looks.

I just want a nice, guy who treats me good and will take good care of me. Im not gonna lie im extremely jealous of my friends especially the one i just mentioned. Her boyfriend recently bought her a puppy and he's planning to propose to her with a 4 carat diamond ring rumour has it. He gives her everything and they make each other so happy.

I just want someone to love me that much too yet all i attract is sleazy criminals. Im a good person too, i volunteer caring for animals in my spare time yet even the guys there don't talk to me and would rather talk to plain jane girls.

[dandiecandie]

Girl I used to be like you too. My ex was a freaken psychopath. Ted Bundy style! The lesson is to let go trying to find someone to love you. You need to love yourself. No one can love you better than you.

[Icemanoj]

From what you have written I can clearly point out that you are a nice girl. Unfortunately, nice people lose attractiveness from the view of opposite gender. Try to be more challenging. Be proud of your qualities. Increase your self esteem. Make sure that you don't settle for cheap things that you don't deserve. Most important do not keep thinking about being single all the time. This thought process will psychologically destroy your confidence. I am 34 single, never in relationship. I liked few girls but they were not available. Some liked me but I know they were most purposeful or not serious. But I haven't lost my confidence or self esteem. I don't even think/ worry that I am single. I know I will find someone sooner or later but a better person.

[israelisevil]

nothing you mentioned is loving just material things. "criminals" got more morals then you they probably leave when they realize your shallow.

[Joe1956]

raise your standards... tip: bad boys are jerks

[Iamcoming]

You have not luck